GF is on vacation for a week.. She turned 21 the day she left. I totally trust her, but cant help worry. Her cousin is a firefighter, she's hanging out with him and all his other fire buddies. Firefighters = bad news. haha I know becuase I am one.. Thats really not the point, but how should I handle myself when she's like oh we're going out tonight.. blah blah.. Got so wasted last night. I'm so insecure. haha
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl on vacation..
- Thread starter shock
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So she just turned 21...and is going to celebrate by going AWAY to hang out with a bunch of horny roidmonkeys who have nothing better to do but sit around blue-balled 90% of the time at the station?shock said:
1 young bored girl + 20 bored horndogs + LOTS of free time to kill? Hmm, you do the math...
SHE IS GOING THERE TO GET HOSED, kiddo. She ain't there to look at scenery. Don't fool yourself.
All you can do is pray she uses protection and doesn't give you herpes when she comes back. :crackup:
surely thats on the itinerary, along with her cousin's wedding and the family reunion. But hey I appreciate your optimism bud... jesus christ.. haha
Okay, So I may have opened myself up for that one, but I have a week of this to go, and I am really not feeling that great about it. I dont want to come off some insecure controlling ******* (maybe to you guys, but not her) Just frustrating I suppose.. any comforting advice?
shock said:
jesus christ.. haha
Okay, So I may have opened myself up for that one, but I have a week of this to go, and I am really not feeling that great about it. I dont want to come off some insecure controlling ******* (maybe to you guys, but not her) Just frustrating I suppose.. any comforting advice?
Dude...wayword is NOT joking. And I am going to agree with him on this one.
Uh, if it was really a boring wedding & reunion, seems like she'd invite you along to break the monotony and show you off to all her friends & family. I mean, a wedding is DEFINITELY a "date event" that girls prefer to be escorted to so they don't look like single can't-get-a-man losers...shock said:
Oh, but you're probably conveniently working this weekend...or she has some lame excuse why you can't come with, right? :crackup:
Thing is, if she has a fireman fetish (she's dating you, right?), imagine how wet she'll be getting when surrounded by a whole damn crew of them...all by her little lone self! *enter porno music* Just add a little alchohol...and it's GAME OVER MAN - ROLL 'EM!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.