GF is on vacation for a week.. She turned 21 the day she left. I totally trust her, but cant help worry. Her cousin is a firefighter, she's hanging out with him and all his other fire buddies. Firefighters = bad news. haha I know becuase I am one.. Thats really not the point, but how should I handle myself when she's like oh we're going out tonight.. blah blah.. Got so wasted last night. I'm so insecure. haha
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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Girl on vacation..
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So she just turned 21...and is going to celebrate by going AWAY to hang out with a bunch of horny roidmonkeys who have nothing better to do but sit around blue-balled 90% of the time at the station?shock said:
1 young bored girl + 20 bored horndogs + LOTS of free time to kill? Hmm, you do the math...
SHE IS GOING THERE TO GET HOSED, kiddo. She ain't there to look at scenery. Don't fool yourself.
All you can do is pray she uses protection and doesn't give you herpes when she comes back. :crackup:
surely thats on the itinerary, along with her cousin's wedding and the family reunion. But hey I appreciate your optimism bud... jesus christ.. haha
Okay, So I may have opened myself up for that one, but I have a week of this to go, and I am really not feeling that great about it. I dont want to come off some insecure controlling ******* (maybe to you guys, but not her) Just frustrating I suppose.. any comforting advice?
shock said:
jesus christ.. haha
Okay, So I may have opened myself up for that one, but I have a week of this to go, and I am really not feeling that great about it. I dont want to come off some insecure controlling ******* (maybe to you guys, but not her) Just frustrating I suppose.. any comforting advice?
Dude...wayword is NOT joking. And I am going to agree with him on this one.
Uh, if it was really a boring wedding & reunion, seems like she'd invite you along to break the monotony and show you off to all her friends & family. I mean, a wedding is DEFINITELY a "date event" that girls prefer to be escorted to so they don't look like single can't-get-a-man losers...shock said:
Oh, but you're probably conveniently working this weekend...or she has some lame excuse why you can't come with, right? :crackup:
Thing is, if she has a fireman fetish (she's dating you, right?), imagine how wet she'll be getting when surrounded by a whole damn crew of them...all by her little lone self! *enter porno music* Just add a little alchohol...and it's GAME OVER MAN - ROLL 'EM!
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.