"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl on the rebound!!!!!!

killkurt77

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hey guys ,,id luv some advice ,,met a girl who is about a 7? SHE RECENTLY GOT DUMPED BY SOME GUY WHO was probably using her for sex , kissed her in a bar ad she said i must only be kissing her cos im drunk , said if i liked her id take her number , i did , sent her a text , for the next 2 days i woke up to her texting me , arranged to meet up and she arrives with her é friends acting like a ***** etc,,, anyway the way i see it is

1 . SHE wanted revenge on her ex, or on men in general , i was a good target cos i proved i had a real interest in her

2. many girls mite consider me a 9 ,doesnt mean i do , but it gave her a chance to blow away a guy with higher value which made her feel powerful for a change ,
anyway ,,now i want to restore the balance of nature ,,,it finished with her thinkin im a nice guy , but a sap ,,her little puppy dog ,,,,id like to change that and show her that its nice to be nic e,,but i can just as easily be bad , i know this is a waste of energy but anyway ,,ive left myself a nice opening by makin her feel very secure that she understands me inside out ,,,,,so please don juans out there ,,any good ideas on this situation ,which happens to the best of us when we out down our defences and feel sorry for girls who dont appreciate it ,,,and yes i am bitter!!!!!thanx
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just fvck her, quit analyzing. If she's on the rebound who cares, just hit it and don't get involved emotionally. Theres no reason you can't hit it multiple times.
 
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Yeah girls on the rebound are the easiest. Especially if rebound = divorced. But then they get all clingy, so watch out!
 

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**** the ***** up
 
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