Girl on bus turning head

[KingKongSchlong]

Hey DJ's.

I am a guy with a lot of approach anxiety. Last couple of weeks I have been feeling real good about myself and feel like girls have started to notice me a lot more for some reason. I am pale, got a long schnoz, but I don't care about all that and the girls doesn't seem to either.

Like I often get the feeling of girls looking, you know, and she follows me with her stare. And for some reason it is mainly better than average looking girls, I had this happen today on the bus home.

I sit down in the back, behind a really cute girl and don't think much more about it. It was more or less the only empty double seat. So I sit down, glance out the window cause I am feeling good and smiling just thinking about all the stuff that happened earlier today, and I see her turn around, like 180 degrees. She looks past me, for a second or two, then look back straight forward.

I don't think much about it, so I just keep on chilling, and a minute or two later she looks back again but this time looking in my eyes, and since I am such a donkey I just let it slip.

Then she does it one more time, I can literally feel her glance upon my face, and I move my eyes to meet hers and she turns her head back.

This was basically the scenario out of my POV, if this were to happen to you how would you characterize it? Was she baiting me into looking or just wanted to grab my attention, and on a scale of 1-10 how much of a ***** were I? What would you have done in the same situation?

 

[JoeMarron]

Dudes like to think women are checking them out all the time. Whether that's true or not is irrelevant. Grab your balls and talk to her then you'll know for sure.

 

[Zarky]

^^^^ says it all

 

[KingKongSchlong]

^^^^ says it all

Way to contribute.

 

[dasein]

It's all noise to be discounted other than 1. her enthusiastic willingness to spend more and more time with you alone, and 2. her enthusiastic response to escalating physical advances, up to and including sex.

Everything they say and do otherwise is to be discounted as noise. People are "noisy" creatures who send out all kinds of conflicting signals and chatter, women especially so. Use the noise as an indicator of emotional response to be encouraged and repeated, not as indicators of any presumed degree of interest.

A woman saying yes to spending time with you, and the sounds of her climaxing for real are about it as far as useful indicators of interest, and even so, those are just indicators of interest, not conclusive. It takes proactive measures on your part to even get to useful indicators and capitalize on them. If you don't take those steps when opportunities present themselves, you will not get to the point of any useful knowledge of a particular woman's amount of interest. Keep your interactions with women light, flirty and binary in seeking the above, filter out the noise to the extent you don't use it to build attraction, and keep yourself sane and in control. Getting bogged down and hesitant in their noise is a quick way to being discounted by them and not getting what you want.

 

[GS750]

Take it as a positive. Hot women will hardly recognize your existence if they're not attracted to you. Case in point this 9/10 I know literally refused to acknowledge my existence when I said hi to her today. Looked me right in the eyes. Ive never done anything to offend her(that I know of). And its been like that for 2 years lol.

True. If a girl is not interested, unavailable, lesbian, etc. she will not recognize your existence. They will ignore you. Take deliberate eye contact as an invitation to approach.

 

[OptimumIndividual]

Shouldn't this be in the high school forum?