"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl Obsessed With Dog

Den Draper

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So I've been texting this girl for a few weeks. We have a good connection in text.

She calls me at 2am on a work night to have me come over to cuddle because she's sick. It's an hour away so I don't go.

She cancels a date Thurs because her mom has surgery and has to help her.

On Friday we hang out. I get there at noon. An hour later her mom calls and she has to leave at 3 so the date is cut short. I'm pissed.

At the date, we're holding hands and hugging. Her dog is on her lap. Every time I kiss her the dog gets mad and gets between us.

She also casually talks about how she has a lot of guy friends that are just friends. One is texting her while I'm there about a concert they're going to. She tells me that one sleeps in her bed sometimes but he's a virgin. She also tells me that he'd sleep on couch if we are in a relationship.

Should I continue to date her or bail?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mangotot

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Sounds like a nutter. If she is a 10 or something then go for the bang outgerwise leave. And leave now.
 

Den Draper

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Yeah...she looked like an 8 in pics...maybe 6.5 in person.

Is it possible for a girl to have a bunch of guy friends that stay at their house but they don't have sex with?
 

El Payaso

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Troll.
 

Atom Smasher

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I recommend that you stick with her and court her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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