Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl not used to father firgue in life.... N hangs wit guys

YoungSir4sho

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Yea so my girl that I just got with last week tells me on the phone today that she is not used to a father firgue. N that recently her father came into her life blah blah blah n wheneva I tell her something she says no man tells her what to do.

I kno u guys get this all the time, also almost all of her friends is guys. Im not really jealous but she is always talkin about them. N they are always callin her mad late n she just says that they all like her brothers. Wat should I do about this n she also doesnt menotion bout us hanging out together alot so i need to kno how to rise more stuff out of her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr. Wolf

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She is simply saying that you are way too controlling, or like a dad with her, nice, and she does not like that. Be like her lover, let her go, she comes to you when she wants or when you want her. Don't be around her all the time, don't be controlling, don't focus on her.

You should carefully understand my point.

She thinks you're like a dad with her. Fvcking her dad would soon be an incest, so back off.

This also means that she's banging other guys, that she wants several guys in her life, one of which is you. She's a wh0re.
 

MooseGod

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I don't know if she can be helped man. It usually takes a stick of dynamite to get people to change. When she does change, it may be after years of disappointing relationships when she finally realizes that it's not the world that's messed up, it's her.

Don't invest too much effort into this girl. She's got baggage. Nearly everybody's personality is shaped by early childhood experiences--good, bad, or in between. Be careful.
 

oakraiderz2

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Girls who hang out with all dudes are hos. They dont have girl friends for a reason. A hand full of her guy "friends" have probably ran through that sh*t. Dont sweat that sh*t.
 
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