"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl not having feelings for me because of an arguemnt?

daniel_6_mile_man

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I was getting close with a girl and made some moves......and we were playing basketball together one day and started arguing about stuff and we had 1 or 2 arguments....and she left later on without saying goodbye

now she says she doesnt wanna have feelings for sum one she argues with a lot....even though that was the first time we argued and only had a couple arguemnts

what should i tell her????? i really like her and want to have a closer relationship....i think she overreacted, but what do u guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It depends on how hectic the argument was. If it was nothing then I would say something. You should try and say that if she has a cry over stuff like that then you won't bother hanging with her (which is what you should do). If she's weak I wouldn't bother.
 

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Set your sites on someone else. But tell her you would rather be friends then build it up from there.
 
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