Girl nervous around me

[Avn_0903]

Okay, I'm interested in this girl, n she knows it. However I have been push pulling for a while. Now she's very nervous around me, she can't hold eye contact, when I was talking to her n her friends beside her, she kept looking around like she's not interested, but the problem is she was trying too hard to look disinterested. Do u guys think this girl is interested in me but trying to hide it?

lol and btw, it's "nervous"

 

[slaog]

Depends.


Is she happy to see you? Does she avoid you or try to be near you? How does her friend act around you?

 

[Avn_0903]

I cant really tell if she's happy to see me or not but she did stare at me and played w/ her hair (n after that I ignored her 4 a while, then came to talk to her n her friends n she's all nervous n ****). She sometimes avoids me n sometimes tries to be near me (don't u just love the mixed signals? lolz). Most of her friends act normal in front of me so I can't really tell from that (i know most of them before I got interested in the girl).

 

[slaog]

If she stared at you and played with her hair then 99 times out of 100 she likes you.

 

[Avn_0903]

Haha yeah but I asked her to hang out w/ me 3 times n she declined them all )

 

[slaog]

Haha yeah but I asked her to hang out w/ me 3 times n she declined them all )

Are you sure she was staring at you and touching her hair or she just happened to look at you?


How old are you both?

 

[Avn_0903]

Yeah I'm pretty sure. I'm 20, she's 18. She attended a all-girl school before coming to college so I think she might be a bit scared of guys lol. Also she's Asian n Asian parents usually put in their children's heads the idea of not having a bf until u finish ur education ) So I'm thinking that's the reason she rejected my invitation.

 

[JJMcLure]

Trying to analyse signals will only lead to frustration. You have said you like her so you should make a move. Get her number, suggest a date, attempt a kiss close (on the lips). If you can't achieve all of those steps, she is not interested. You know what you want so go after it - only the fear of rejection can hold you back.

 

[romangod]

She's either really interested or couldn't care less.



Cheers!

 

[MisterMcGee]

I've had a girl do that, but it only took around a few minutes of just being myself and not being phased by her presence for her to approach me and talk.