"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DVM1029

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Have any of you taken a girl home, only to find her stiffin up on you? The next logical step would be sex, yet the thought of it makes her nervous and uncomfortable. She gets really quiet and stops making eye contact... yet only half an hour ago at the party/bbq/bar/whatever she was super-flirtatious, happy to be around you and clearly enamored.

How would you loosen the girl up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tomatoes

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Some gently kino (YOu look tense? Would you like a massage). Offer a drink. Music.
 

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has this happened to you? Will you AFCs stop posting "what will happen" cause it really happened to you. Be honest dumb AFCs.
 

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Look ino Mystery Method. He gives a whole crapload of great ways to get rid of LMR.

I've been personally testing and proving the freeze-out method. It works, period. If it doesn't, then there's something that went wrong before already.

Try the Freeze-out tactic. If a woman says no, and I mean a straight out NO, just say, "I Understand." and immediately stop the come-ons. Turn on the lights, turn off the music, and ask if she wants to watch TV. After a good five to ten minutes, reinitiate kino and seduction routines. Then tell her to initiate the phase that you just last stopped at. It's a wonderful, and almost fool-proof routine that always kicks LMR in the ass.

-Damian
 
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