"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DVM1029

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Have any of you taken a girl home, only to find her stiffin up on you? The next logical step would be sex, yet the thought of it makes her nervous and uncomfortable. She gets really quiet and stops making eye contact... yet only half an hour ago at the party/bbq/bar/whatever she was super-flirtatious, happy to be around you and clearly enamored.

How would you loosen the girl up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some gently kino (YOu look tense? Would you like a massage). Offer a drink. Music.
 

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has this happened to you? Will you AFCs stop posting "what will happen" cause it really happened to you. Be honest dumb AFCs.
 

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Look ino Mystery Method. He gives a whole crapload of great ways to get rid of LMR.

I've been personally testing and proving the freeze-out method. It works, period. If it doesn't, then there's something that went wrong before already.

Try the Freeze-out tactic. If a woman says no, and I mean a straight out NO, just say, "I Understand." and immediately stop the come-ons. Turn on the lights, turn off the music, and ask if she wants to watch TV. After a good five to ten minutes, reinitiate kino and seduction routines. Then tell her to initiate the phase that you just last stopped at. It's a wonderful, and almost fool-proof routine that always kicks LMR in the ass.

-Damian
 
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