Girl naked in my bed twice - No sex

[bukowski_merit]

But honesty out of every girl ive been with shes more of one of the normal ones that ive been with.

Reading someone write "out of every girl i've been with she's..." - has NEVER been a good thing. Forget that sentiment.

With this girl: she's maintaining the smallest amount of control that she can, while retaining a huge amount of power from that small amount of control. That's what is bothering your sub-conscious. It's not natural to do what she's doing.

Also, let's not overvalue this as some angelic move by a maddona. If the line between a s!ut and a girl who values herself is as small as only doing foreplay and not sex. Or giving it up on date 5 instead of date 1 - then how much value is one worth over the other? How a woman see's you largely dictates on which date she'll get intimate with you, and what she'll do with you.

This woman is mindfvcking you and most likely herself! Healthy? Pure? Maybe she has morals? lol.... Nah man, this woman is just enjoying the rush that comes with the power..... Believe it.

You take it away by not wanting. By not giving.

Performing oral sex on her before ever having sex with her? What? No no no...


How about this next time she starts to get undressed: "Leave your clothes on, let's just makeout". Pull back further than she is.



Just like a woman saying: "I think we have sex too much. Maybe we should only have sex once a week." Should be meant with: "Yes. I understand and I think you're right. But, we should only have sex with each other once a month." How she responds to such things will tell you a lot. If she gets pissed off and throws a fit - then smile, because that means you fvcked up whatever it was that she was trying to do.



But yes. Going NC, or being unavailable to her, or even just not acting sexually interested in her any longer (while mentioning other women, etc) should all work. If not - well... you are banging other women... act like it.



Also women like this scare me a bit. Mainly because of the R word... Meaning: Rape...... And how easy anything can become it in a court of law.

Careful...

 

[runner83]

Wow, a weird one.

How the heck did you not manage to penetrate her when you were rubbing your d!ck along her cl!t?

Every chick where I've reached that stage, she practically melts as I slide inside her.

Never make the mistake of asusming a "quality girl" is one who does not put out straight away.

If she was attracted to you, she'd let you bang her...unless she has some kind of s!xual hang up.

Depends on your other options, but fact is, a blow job beats mr rosey palm any day of the week.

Use her as a fill in in between your other girls, and see if she does let you bang her in a bit.

 

[Crissco]

Buk- That'd exactly what I'm going to do. Pullback for a bit. Keep the sexual interest low..etc...good post with a lot of good info dude.

Runner- Everytime I tried to go in she would move away. I've never had this happen before. It's new to me. I know about the while if a firm wants to duck u badly enough she will find a away. And ive had that happen. Had a girl drive 2hrs to come see me... She very well could have a sexual hang up. Not sure yet. Or it could be what Buk said about that being the only power she has over me. Like I said I'm gonna pull back. Low sexual intrest. See where that leads.

 

[Crissco]

Banged her last night. Twice and once this morning(let her sleep over). I ended up playing the ultimate push pull tease.

 

[m0101]

Congrats dude. I can imagine how relieved you must be

I ended up playing the ultimate push pull tease.

Care to elaborate on what you said/did? thx

 

[loveshogun]

Banged her last night. Twice and once this morning(let her sleep over). I ended up playing the ultimate push pull tease.

See how all this anxiety could have been avoided if you just stopped asking questions and just chilled out?

Patience is a great weapon in the arsenal of the non-AFC.

 

[Crissco]

See how all this anxiety could have been avoided if you just stopped asking questions and just chilled out?

Patience is a great weapon in the arsenal of the non-AFC.

It was more frustration then anything, because im not used to waiting this long. But, I do need to learn to be more patient, always known that, it isnt only with girls that this happens, its with everything. Believe me, working on it.