"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl mirrors me?

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afc no more

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I've been talking to this girl for the past couple weeks and what I've noticed is that whenever we're talking to each other on AIM, she sort of copies the way I type. Like whenever I'm in an upbeat mood and repeat letters multiple times (like "heeeeeey!" or "whaaaat?") and use smiley faces a lot, she will do the same. When I'm straight forward and serious, she'll be the same. I'm already thinking this can only be a good thing, but I just wanted to confirm it with this board because this has never happened to me before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha she mirrors you dude. It's a good thing because she doesn't find what your doing annoying or if she does she likes you enough not to tell you =D
 
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get off aim and get live in the flesh and you will know what the deal is. You shouldn't be spending this much time on AIM. It's like this AIM<Phonecall<Meet up In person<Sex. You are focusing on the lesser of this sequence. Move forward in the sequence bro.
 
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