"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl might be a Guy: Need advice

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I met this really hot girl, fake boobs, tight body, and cute face. We hit it off at the club. Danced a little, did little bit of touching, kissed her on the neck a little, etc. Then I almost took her home with me but she said she just met me so I just got her number.
Anyways, I'm on the way home from the club and my friend says to me "You know that girl you just met? I think shes a dude." As soon as I heard that I was like wtf? I met this girl/(possibly guy) last Sat and now its about time to call or not.
This girl is really hot, and if she isnt a dude I know I could probably hook up with her, but what if my friend is right and I find a bulge in her pants while in the process of hooking up with her.

What the hell do I do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NickBe

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Pre-Op trannies are usually straight forward about it since they do not want to get killed when a guy puts his hand down there and finds a d*ck. Post-Op they are usually honest too but some may never tell you and you may never know. The main differences are that the vaginal canal will be more shallow (although further operations can make it deeper) and that if you do hit the back of the vaginal canal she wont cringe in pain and say "you hit my cervix".

You got to understand these people they think that they are women born with a pen*s. If they had the operation and it was done right you could never tell that they use to be men. They basically cut the penis in half and push it up into the pelvic bone then use the skin from the scrotum to make the labia.

If you have even and inkling that she was born a man it is best to back off now. Although if she is post-op she has a p*ssy and thinks like a woman so if you are open minded go for it. Personally I could not do it.

You certainly can not ask her if she is a man and expect to ever sleep with her if she isn't.
 

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I'm in a very similar situation. After having sex with this girl (twice) I still don't know if she is a real girl or a post-op tranny. Hey NickBe, are you sure it's impossible to tell the difference? Help!
 

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As far as I know (I have a uncle who is a plastic surgeon) the first sex change operation does not take care of the deepness of the vaginal canal. So if she is post-op and not had a second operation she will have a shallow vaginal canal.

After that as far as I know it is virtually impossible to tell. Operation to remove the Adams apple takes care of that. Then it is pretty much just look at her shoulders and hips.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just something to think about, you know when you turn a girl on she gets soaking wet, and if some guy is post op then how does he/it get wet. I'm curious, wouldnt that tell you or give you a hint as to if shes a real she or a he-she.
 

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I cant say for sure as far as I know most of the lubrication in a woman comes from the female prostate since men do not have a female prostate they probably cant get wet.
 

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Then there ya go to the OP just get your hand down there and if its soaking wet then nail it and if not back away like way way away next city might be far enough LOL.
 

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Dude that would suck. That would be my luck, find someone that is hot and seems almost perfect to find she is a he. I would have to agree, if you think that she is a he, you best bail out now. I would have to know regardless, and I would try and think of ways to ask or find out in a decent way. Your safety/ mental health first and he/ she's feeling second.
 

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Did you ever consider your friend may be a c0ck blocking son of a b1tch, and that while you are here discussing post and pre-Op trannies, he is out banging said chick? Just a thought.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude I bet you these trannys lurke the night clubs of big cities and pray on drunk dudes to take advantage of, you could end up taking the girl back to your house and she may wont the lights turned off and you wake up in the morning and look under the sheets and you see a **** lmfao but then if she is a post-op you may never know.
 

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NickBe said:
Pre-Op trannies are usually straight forward about it since they do not want to get killed when a guy puts his hand down there and finds a d*ck. Post-Op they are usually honest too but some may never tell you and you may never know. The main differences are that the vaginal canal will be more shallow (although further operations can make it deeper) and that if you do hit the back of the vaginal canal she wont cringe in pain and say "you hit my cervix".

You got to understand these people they think that they are women born with a pen*s. If they had the operation and it was done right you could never tell that they use to be men. They basically cut the penis in half and push it up into the pelvic bone then use the skin from the scrotum to make the labia.

If you have even and inkling that she was born a man it is best to back off now. Although if she is post-op she has a p*ssy and thinks like a woman so if you are open minded go for it. Personally I could not do it.

You certainly can not ask her if she is a man and expect to ever sleep with her if she isn't.
WHAT? That's scary as hell!
 

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I would have to think that if She/he is not upfront with you that you would be able to tell by looking at the vagina, there is no way that man can duplicate God's creation down there that well. (that was for the dude that banged the girl already)
For the OP I would listen to what your gut says, if you are still unsure then move on? I cannot believe she would be worth pursuing with that kind of weight hanging over your head.
 

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NickBe said:
You would be able to tell? well you must be endowed with powers beyond those of a normal human because it looks almost exactly the same to me.

Check out some pictures:

http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TS/SRS.html
:eek:

So uh, how do tranny's orgasm/get pleasure. I know it's in the article, but that last part is too long to read
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Short of DNA testing, the inability to get wet appears to be the best indicator (unless the doctors have figured out how to take care of that, somehow). But do you really want to get to the point of finding that out?
 

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When I saw the title of this thread, I was curious. When I read some of these posts, I was kind of afraid. When I looked at the pictures, I was fvcking disturbed. That is some pretty ugly looking pvssy, but really, if you're in the dark, half drunk, and horny, are you gonna catch it?

From now on, before I bang any chick, I'm gonna demand to see pictures of her as a little girl.

Jesus Christ.
 

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It seems curvy hips would indicate female, and also big nipples. Also, any sign of a mustache? Is her voice low?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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