Girl makes fun of my manhood..ouch!

[illmatic1005]

So me and my girl of one year had a HUGE argument..I was pissed at her, she was pissed at me. Im not going to explain that but when we were fighting she said.."ANd you have a small d!ck"...im 6.5 inches and no girl has ever said that and i thought i was a good size until she said that.

My ego was CRUSSHEDDD..it still is to this day.

I talked about it with her later she said shes really sorry and didnt mean it and said i was perfect in that area.

Its still a crush to my ego. How to deal with that?

 

[justiceseeker]

Tell her she didn't know how to wash her ass right, and walked around smelling like bacon bits. Don't take that kind of crap.

 

[oakraiderz2]

F*ck the sh*t out of her and c*m in her face. I bet she wont say anything else disrespectful.

 

[KontrollerX]

It was just a lie generated to hurt you the most.

A lie especially if she's practically worshipped your c0ck during sexual liasons during the course of your relationship.

Many guys are insecure about their size so she threw that hail mary insult out there to see how much it would hurt you.

Since you were bothered so greatly by it she will file this away in her mind for later use when you and she get into a fight again and she will use it again should she get angered enough.

That is unless you make it expressly clear to her the next time she uses this insult towards you, you will walk and never look back.

Yes I realize some AFC posters will likely jump all over what I said and say that is going too far and will just bring this insecurity even more to the forefront of her mind but they are missing the point that you are taking control and framing your relationship for the future and making sure she never goes this hurtful of a route again without enacting severe consequences for herself.

This worked for Rollo Tomassi's marriage when he told his future wife after she had hanged up on him that if she ever did that again that would be the last time they ever spoke to eachother.

She never hanged up on him again and they've been happily married for 11 years.

Rollo didn't do this because he is over sensitive or anything he made this proclamation to his future wife because in the past he had had an ex that had hurt him very badly whom he allowed himself to be horribly disrespected by in many ways hanging up on him mid conversation on the phone one of them and he made a pact with himself that he would never allow this kind of disrespect in a relationship ever again and he didn't.

He went for the kind of relationship he wanted in life and he got it.

So gently but seriously if this has bothered you enough make it clear to your girl that this last time she used this insult will be the last time she ever uses it or you are through for good with her.

 

[Brandonc662]

It was just a lie generated to hurt you the most.

A lie especially if she's practically worshipped your c0ck during sexual liasons during the course of your relationship.

Many guys are insecure about their size so she threw that hail mary insult out there to see how much it would hurt you.

Since you were bothered so greatly by it she will file this away in her mind for later use when you and she get into a fight again and she will use it again should she get angered enough.

That is unless you make it expressly clear to her the next time she uses this insult towards you, you will walk and never look back.

Yes I realize some AFC posters will likely jump all over what I said and say that is going too far and will just bring this insecurity even more to the forefront of her mind but they are missing the point that you are taking control and framing your relationship for the future and making sure she never goes this hurtful of a route again without enacting severe consequences for herself.

This worked for Rollo Tomassi's marriage when he told his future wife after she had hanged up on him that if she ever did that again that would be the last time they ever spoke to eachother.

She never hanged up on him again and they've been happily married for 11 years.

Rollo didn't do this because he is over sensitive or anything he made this proclamation to his future wife because in the past he had had an ex that had hurt him very badly whom he allowed himself to be horribly disrespected by in many ways hanging up on him mid conversation on the phone one of them and he made a pact with himself that he would never allow this kind of disrespect in a relationship ever again and he didn't.

He went for the kind of relationship he wanted in life and he got it.

So gently but seriously if this has bothered you enough make it clear to your girl that this last time she used this insult will be the last time she ever uses it or you are through for good with her.

Best advise you could expect, he should have charged you for this its golden. Take note of what Kontroler said and apply it to your life in more ways than just this situation

 

[Scars]

Fvcking ignored it.

It was just a low blow.

I got in a fight with my exgf just the other day, and I told her "Don't be a fvcking b!tch just cause you can't have my nuts anymore" and she was like "eww, I don't want your nasty nuts or your small d!ck". After a few days of ignoring her, I fvcked her and she gave me head and you know what she said while she was sucking me off? "God, I love your d!ck.. it's so big.." What a fvcking dirty slut... point is, ignore it. She just said it because she was pissed, she probably didn't mean it.

 

[TheBaconator]

So me and my girl of one year had a HUGE argument..I was pissed at her, she was pissed at me. Im not going to explain that but when we were fighting she said.."ANd you have a small d!ck"...im 6.5 inches and no girl has ever said that and i thought i was a good size until she said that.

My ego was CRUSSHEDDD..it still is to this day.

I talked about it with her later she said shes really sorry and didnt mean it and said i was perfect in that area.

Its still a crush to my ego. How to deal with that?

You really shouldn't let it bother you at all. You say your 6.5 well that's above average so don't let her get to you. If she says it ever again to diss you just tell her it's not your fault she has a loose vagina.

 

[[S]alvatore]

The next time she says that, stick it in her ass and say "NOT SO SMALL NOW, IS IT!" (Unless she's an anal wh0re and doesnt hurt whatsoever)

 

[Smack]

Unexpectedly shove it up her arse the next time you're having sex with her - she if she still thinks it's small then!

I think the best thing to do is not let it get to you. If you're 6.5 then you're above average. If that is not enough to pleasure her she must have a vagina that is extremely loose. Likely, she just said it to get to you. It worked. It works for most guys. However, inches are inches regardless of what she perceives them to be.

 

[decades]

I am with Kontroller. That has to be the last time she ever disrespects you like that.

 

[LostAndConfused]

You Don't Have A Small Pen1s, She Has An Oversized Vagina!!!

 

[TheRealSupreme]

So me and my girl of one year had a HUGE argument..I was pissed at her, she was pissed at me. Im not going to explain that but when we were fighting she said.."ANd you have a small d!ck"...im 6.5 inches and no girl has ever said that and i thought i was a good size until she said that.

My ego was CRUSSHEDDD..it still is to this day.

I talked about it with her later she said shes really sorry and didnt mean it and said i was perfect in that area.

Its still a crush to my ego. How to deal with that?

1. The average is 5.5 so your a whole inch over it.

2. Recognize that she said this to hurt you and it probably wasn't based on any real thinking. She was mad and struck out with a comment that she KNEW would destroy you.

3. And a woman who would sink that low in a argument just to hurt you isn't someone I would want to be close to. If she said it once she will say it again if you push her hard enough. She knew what button to push and has probably used it before. If not she still knew what to say to hurt you in the deepest possible way.

4. And since she said it was small then she shouldn't mind taking it up her arse either!!!!

5. Lastly pleasure isn't derived from dyck size. It is main derived from hitting the right spot within her. I have to back my shyt out and aim it up to hit the g-spot so size is over-rated!

 

[Bonafide]

The sad truth is


You have no man hood if you think your penis defines how much of a man you are.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Isn't this the guy who has 99 problems with the same girl?

 

[gösta berling]

In a 2005 study, 70 percent of women expressed dissatisfaction with their breasts.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size