"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl lost intrest! Need help

Tacboy

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So there is this chick I work with and durring lunch break and any other time she had free she would come chat with me and sit next to me. Everyone could see she wanted me and I have no skills with the ladies so I just treated her like any of my other female friends. now there is a new guy at work and she is spending more time with him. any tips to get her back looking my way? I don't want to look like some nerd and just start jocking her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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I have no skills with the ladies
You need some skills with the ladies.

See the link at the bottom called The DJ Bible? You don't have to read the whole thing, just "Questions for newbies" right at the beginning.
 

Delta

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going AFTER HER at this point is a lost cause.

you want her to chase you, if you chase her it does not inspire desire on her end... only perhaps repulsion.

the key answer and philosophy here is that you simply NEXT HER.

she's not worth it. and you guys don't really know each other from a hole in the ground (romatically speaking). forget it and move on.

seriously the answer for men is NOT persistence in chasing any particular woman. cast a wide net and go for someone who does not NEED CONVINCING!

added bonus is that if you are aloof and things don't work out with the other guy, she might still be drawn to you.

delta
 
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