Girl lingo text question

[CMNILS87]

Seeing a gal about 3 1/2 weeks, 3 dates, hangout, such. Also keeping other flames going. This gal, very troubled past that came out on the 3rd date and showed her low priority status. Drunk cheating dad and mom is a closet alcoholic. Boy friend cheated on her and was a total alpha ****, and she came back to him for another 2 years not knowing her self worth because of said previous parental issues. That ended in July, She dated a dude 2 months until he broke it off on x-mas for a job relocation. I picked her up 4 days later and started chatting and dates. we both said we were seeing other people, but i was pursuing her and she was escalating about the same. 2nd date, i didn't get sex but i did get a nice ******* and cuddle with her. 3rd date was another ******* and sex at the end at her place. 3rd date we were both tuned up and she started wailing about her were just seeing each other and how her 2 month ex is blowing up her phone saying her loves her and yada yada yada. Then after sex and everything, she starts on with the "all men are ****s" and thats the big red flag, and how id hurt her one day. I told her that I'm not like that, i enjoy her time, but totally disrespectful to assume that of me. I left and didn't really talk to her till Sunday morning. I was literally on the verge of ejecting softly and saying, "hey i had fun, but your ex is in the picture and you disrespected me friday morning, take care". as I'm typing it on text, she sends this long huge text saying. "I have to be honest, this guy i know wants to give a relationship a shot, and i know that its nothing serious, but i feel it could be so i have to follow my heart...." Youre a great guy and a big tease, and i enjoyed our dates together. I texted back, "OK thats cool, take care!"

Any Don Juan help me out with this girl lingo. Was this i'm still head over heels with my 2 month ex and f***** him last night or just a S*** test to see if i'm an orbiter? i have others to pursue and myself to work on so it bothers me not that i already got sex and BJ's from her.

 

[blind_one]

If you fvcked her, why assume you were an orbiter? You got the goods, but her long-time EX is on her ''high score list theory''. You did well and your response was allright. Pursue other women, she might contact you in X time but I wouldnt count on it. If she reaches out in a couple months , get her to meet up and fvck her again.

 

[sodbuster]

She probably needs to be treated worse..... low self esteem woman, etc.... When a woman tells you about her ex that she dated for 2 years, but he treated her bad? guess what? It's what she expects.... you just have to be marginally better, so she doesn't break up with you

 

[CMNILS87]

She probably needs to be treated worse..... low self esteem woman, etc.... When a woman tells you about her ex that she dated for 2 years, but he treated her bad? guess what? It's what she expects.... you just have to be marginally better, so she doesn't break up with you

It was just another plate i was spinning, realized no potential after 2 dates, but she was great with oral. Just barely new to this website a few months and still learning the ropes. Thanks for the info. But the context of the sentence "He wants to try a relationship out and see where it goes".....is obviously a blatant lie. If shes insecure and attached to an Alpha thats also a douche that cheats, he would never push for a relationship after a few weeks. Most people on her say take what women say with a grain of salt and after hearing **** like that from her mouth, id have to agree.