girl likes me but with other guy

[JoeSchmoe05]

This is OLD news at this point but was thinking back. Had this girl that liked me (INFATUATED) but wouldn't do anything to break up with her boyfriend... I'm guessing because she wasn't sure if I liked her back. (EDIT: Although I did like her, I reined in my interest like a DJ... yet not in an attempt to be one in this situation. But despite that, I often saw her and her friends almost everyday and it was no secret she liked me... with all that exposure including going to bars, doing homework together, etc. I'm sure that somehow my interest in her leaked out at several points. Enough so that I think she should have been able to confidently break up with her guy to free herself up.)

I just really hate to get involved with a girl that has someone already. While I'm at peace withwith my decision, I'm just curious if there is in general a Don Juan reason why not to get involved with a girl in a relationship (no matter how much she likes you)?

EDIT: btw I got to know this boyfriend and I consider him a friend. A total gentleman and one of the nicest guys I've ever met, yet very funny and uninhibited.

 

[superchristx]

The only "dj reason" you wouldn't want to get caught up with a girl who already was in another relationship is that it calls her loyalty into question. Does it bother you that some guy (you) was able to 'steal' her away with a little push/pull and kino? Try to ignore the fact that it was YOU stealing it from some AFC, tomorrow you might be the afc. Again, if you're comfortable with the way it went down then there's no problem.


Morally, on the other hand, there's a big problem. the guy was your friend. That is the #1 no-no in this game! bro's before ho's a$$hole.

 

[JoeSchmoe05]

ok, thanks for the response. Well I'm just glad this is in the past now... it became a rather stressful situation because I had so much contact with him, her and our mutual friends and had to deal with this nearly every single day.