"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl likes me but is dating my best friend

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told her girlfriends only reason she's dating him is to make me jealous. I liked this girl, but now that she pulled this crap it's ruined any chance of us getting together. what was she thinking when she did this??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women don't think logically like men. They see something they want and rather than going for it, they screw around with it and try to make it come to them.

Go and bang one of her girlfriends.
 
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She sounds like a manipulative b1tch using your friend this way! I'd advise steering clear of her! Never put girls before friendship!

I nearly lost my best friend over a girl like this, and trust me, it's not worth it!
 
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someguyuk's advice while extremely chaveunistic often works. It could also backfire though in that you end up with one of her friends all crazy about you :)
 
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someguyuk said:
Women don't think logically like men. They see something they want and rather than going for it, they screw around with it and try to make it come to them.
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Women are perfectionist at getting what they want.
This lady Iam working on,17,I'm 18,she has admitted to me that she pouts to get what she wants. In short women are dumb,dont take their BS and you will be fne.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not all women are dumb. Some just pretend to be because it is more effective at getting them what they want then logical arguments are. Remember how guys are big suckers for drama. The point is that an AFC is a sucker who acts like a wuss. A man demands respect but doesn't gain it by force, rather through a display of the fact that he is a man and thus earns it.
 
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And furthermore in regards to the previous comment, a woman/girl who doesn't recognize a real sincere man is often too naive or ignorant to realize what a great catch she has found.
 
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Charm said:
And furthermore in regards to the previous comment, a woman/girl who doesn't recognize a real sincere man is often too naive or ignorant to realize what a great catch she has found.
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So true Charm,many think they have it the best way possible until we come along. Then they meet us and start wondering and turn into denial.
 
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If she likes you she might mess about a bit but she wouldn't risk loosing you by dating your best friend. Actions my friend not words. Nothing to see here move on
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my vote is move on....now that she's dating your best friend there is no way in hell you can date her....at least for the time being...until your friend gets over her.....
 
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