"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl likes me but has a b/f

djweses89

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ok yea i need some advice help or w/e guys i know this girl really hot and she really likes me want my body all that fun stuff and of course ima like her but she has a b/f and she doesnt wanna cheat cus shes been cheated on before and she doesnt wanna do that and she wont break up wit him cus last time she broke up wit a dude for another dude it didnt work out so great . so i stuck really not sure what to do to get her to break up wit him or w/e. Its really confusing cus she does like me but shes all about not hurting the dude shes wit and not gettin hurt herself so wat to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaCam

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She won't break up with him. She won't cheat on him. That means you're gonna be wankin' a hell of a long time buddy.

The total time you spent writing this, and contemplating things with this girl, you could have got an ever better woman.

Play the field. Less thinking more screwing.

BTW - Good odds she's just playin'.
 

Skilla_Staz

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If she wanted you bad enough, the boyfriend wouldn't be an issue.

Meaning?

Find the hottest of her friends and spit your game my friend.
 

S1NN3R

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djweses89 said:
ok yea i need some advice help or w/e guys i know this girl really hot and she really likes me want my body all that fun stuff and of course ima like her but she has a b/f and she doesnt wanna cheat cus shes been cheated on before and she doesnt wanna do that and she wont break up wit him cus last time she broke up wit a dude for another dude it didnt work out so great . so i stuck really not sure what to do to get her to break up wit him or w/e. Its really confusing cus she does like me but shes all about not hurting the dude shes wit and not gettin hurt herself so wat to do?
Very simple process. Face away from the girl, pick up your right foot and put it in front of the left one, now put the left one out in front of the right one and repeat. It's called "walking away" and you'll get the hang of it. Gets easier with every step.
 

kev me723

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You are 100& BEST off ignoring any girl with any sort of bf/committment/whatever. HOWEVER, I strongly believe that 90% of women will cheat on their boyfriend. It takes skill and some effort on your part. I'm not telling you to try. In fact, my ears turn off and my body automatically walks away at about "boyf" but they will do it, don't ever doubt that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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