"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ProDJ26

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So I've been dating this girl for sometime and just recently I always seem to catch her in lies. :confused: For Example, she claimed that she didnt smoke anymore until one day she went for a "walk" came home and kiss me. Her breath indeed smelled just like she had smoked a cigarette!!!! :eek:
She denied that she didnt. I just found her hard to believe that everytime we kiss before she goes for walks that her breath doesnt smell like nicotine yet when she comes inside it does. WTF?!

So she just admitted to smoking "only 2" las thursday after being in the hospital. I found out because there was an empty cigarrette carton by the toilet, ashes on the bathroom floor and a lighter in the medicine cabinet.
It pisses me off that she lies to me point blank in my face. I'm still pissed at her not so much as smoking but the fact that she wouldnt admit it and I call her on her bullsh*t. You guys no the saying, Liars = Stealers = Cheaters.
I'm afraid that soon she'll start seing other guys. Anybody have experience with this? :confused:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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remember this and you will start to see things differently...

DONT LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS BUT HER ACTIONS

look at how those conversations looked after you caught her lying.. you looked like the idiot AFC

however..having said that. i would not axpect anything different than what she would expect.

if you demand honesty in a girl, then you need to move on and find someone that will not jeapordize your relationship over trivial matters
 
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calm down man..

so what? she smokes. no big deal, tell her that you found out and that she sould spare you all these lies, instead she should go and brush her teeth,everytime she kisses you.

just because she lies with smoking, doesn't mean that she will cheat on you.

maybe she is just ashamed. just tell her that it is ok, and give her the comfort feeling that she can trust you in the future with her habits.
 
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Has she ever lied about anything else? If she just lies about smoking cigarettes I wouldn't worry about it, but just tell her you don't really care if she does as long as she doesn't lie about it.

Now, if she lies about anything else, that's a red flag.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No but it might be a refection on her and why you should stay away. When it comes to women, go not by what they say but what they do.
 
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she just had a baby i been with her since she was pregnant. Not my kid tho. I know im a idiot lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha I love it how guys conviently leave out the red flags because they know they'll get sh1t on. I'm willing to be dollars to donuts that she was smoking while she was prego.

How often were you banging her when she was prego? Just curious as its been about 10 years since I banged a pregnant chick and I've actually been craving banging a pregnant chick lately.
 
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i think you should tell her that you know she has been lying to you and you do not understand why. if she wants to smoke, be woman enough to admit she is a smoker and get it out of the way... don't lie and keep it a secret like some little kid getting caught by the parental units on something petty.

if she lies about the fact that she is a smoker, what else does she lie about?

then i think you should rethink what it is that you want from her. do you want to be with someone who lies to your face or don't you?
 
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DJDamage said:
WOW, I am not even going to touch this one, even her new born coughing bastard is waving a red flag.
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In all seriousness... she lies straight to ya, & she was dumb enough to get preggers. All you have to ask yourself... is this the kinda girl you dreamt of being with growing up ? If not, get out now.

It really is that simple.
 
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Man

What are you doing? Bang her...leave it at that. I have been in a similar situation (new born, not while she was preg lol) but honestly...if she is going to lie about something as trivial as smoking...think about what else she has been bull****ting you about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ProDJ26 said:
she just had a baby i been with her since she was pregnant. Not my kid tho. I know im a idiot lol
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...Well...




...Uhmm...




...Okaaay.:whistle:



What the ****?-- You're dating a chick who was already pregnant with some other dude's kid and you're worried about the smell of her breath... what exactly are you getting out of that deal, anyways?!

Sounds like a "MILFA" to me.

MILFA=Mother I'd Like to Forget About;)
 
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What are you afraid of?

A liar like this is probably already taking it up the ass from the entire football team and the coach when you're not together anyway.

Emotionally detach from this cvnt and use her up for the only thing she'll ever be good at in life and you'll be fine.

Honestly people you're making this all harder than it has to be.
 
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