"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl lets me inside her house

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so i was at the bus stop waiting for my bus....cute 24 yr stands close to me and i ask her if my bus is usually late because ive been waiting forever. blah blah blah...small talk...bus arrives, we get on and i sit next to her. she seemed pleased and our thighs were touching the whole time. we were shoulder to shoulder basically small talking and enjoying the ride.

her stops arrives and i get off with her and tell her my event is probably closed because im so late. i ask to walk and talk until we get to her place. she had groceries but didnt allow me to carry her bag...ok..whatever i was just being polite...so im thinking nothing is going to come out of this interaction.

but yet we are walking and smiling and we get to her house and she lets me in! i say hi to her room mate and the 24 yr old starts to clean up the place and im basically just trying to make her talk, so....i say give me a pen and paper. i write down my # and name and leave it on the table.

i tell her to walk me out and point to me in the direction of get me the heck to a bus stop because i dont know where the freak i am.

I have slept with girls i meet on the train within 2 hours...but i find it weird that she lets a complete...charming...stranger into her house.

i thought once in, she would settle down and open some wine and one thing would lead to another...but she started doing household chores. and her place wasnt even dirty.

her friend was happy to see me though...i could have done **** with her, but i liked the first one because she was in shape.

you guys got any insights...thoughts...

she should call because im awesome, but i doubt she will.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should have got her number instead (says Anti-Dump).

It is chump like to put the responsibility on the woman to call you instead, and you gave away your power now waiting with uncertainty (most women will NOT initiate calling when a man gives her his number).

She is now probably very disappointed that you didn't have the confidence to get her number.

The man is action, the woman receives.

Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
You should have got her number instead (says Anti-Dump).

It is chump like to put the responsibility on the woman to call you instead, and you gave away your power now waiting with uncertainty (most women will NOT initiate calling when a man gives her his number).

She is now probably very disappointed that you didn't have the confidence to get her number.

The man is action, the woman receives.

Exodus
No...I did ask her for hers...she didn't reply...so...
 
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