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This girl ive been smashing for the past two months left her IG signed into my phone and ive been reading all her messages for the past 2 weeks. Holy chit. I knew she had a semi-bf who she was cheating on but i didnt know that shes also fvcking at least 3 other guys. This week she banged one dude on Tuesday, another one on wensday, and today shes posting stories of her and the bf like nothing. Even tho shes just a FWB its still a huge turn off knowing shes banging a bunch of other guys and im not sure if i should see her anymore. Like im nothing special to her just another dude in her rotation. Idk why this turned me off so much even tho i dont have feelings for her
 

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Like im nothing special to her just another dude in her rotation. Idk why this turned me off so much even tho i dont have feelings for her
Not to be a d*ck but what did you expect from a girl who is cheating on her BF with you? I would simply expect it. But yes I do understand how it's a turn-off. It would be for me as well. Agree with Bible-Belt. Be sure to use protection and watch out for the herp.

As for should you keep banging her - really your choice. If the sex is that great and you genuinely don't have feelings for her then go for it. The simple truth is that all women have the potential to do exactly what this one is doing, no matter how cute or sweet or exclusive she may seem. You just never know so it's best to assume they are.
 

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easy lay without any commitment? keep going, just never take her for anything then laying pipe, and don't spend money on her, use her, and keep looking for a better girl
Thats the thing. Ive been spending money on her going out to clubs, restaurants, road trips etc. All the other guys shes fvcking just invite themselves over and smash or do somthing cheap like the beach. I kinda feel like a tool.
 

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To check on a woman's moral fiber, yell at her vagina. Then time how many seconds before the echo.

To be serious, you're getting first hand proof of what we hear so much about on this forum. It's a whole new
Ball game with smart phones and social media. I'd Hard Ghost her, and if she begs why just reply "you know".
Probably drive her nuts.

Don't feel like a tool. Good exercise, good training.
 
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You already know the answer. We're just here to check you for not going down that road. The true issue is that you have to accept that part of her, and that can hurt your ego knowing you're not the only one she's going to. I get it, we all do. Just take it like a man and don't put energy into her.
 

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Thats the thing. Ive been spending money on her going out to clubs, restaurants, road trips etc. All the other guys shes fvcking just invite themselves over and smash or do somthing cheap like the beach. I kinda feel like a tool.
I see so you are dating her but, serious you modern people are strange to me, I would nver be in a open relationship like that, but hey each to his own
 

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This girl ive been smashing for the past two months left her IG signed into my phone and ive been reading all her messages for the past 2 weeks. Holy chit. I knew she had a semi-bf who she was cheating on but i didnt know that shes also fvcking at least 3 other guys. This week she banged one dude on Tuesday, another one on wensday, and today shes posting stories of her and the bf like nothing. Even tho shes just a FWB its still a huge turn off knowing shes banging a bunch of other guys and im not sure if i should see her anymore. Like im nothing special to her just another dude in her rotation. Idk why this turned me off so much even tho i dont have feelings for her
First things first, kinda creepy mate. I know the urge but you're better than that. No need to introduce someone's "privacy".

Second, you don't need to read her DMs to know she has at least 4-6 guys in the rotation. That is the reality for most modern women. Just assume she is sleeping around, especially given you are just FWB.

Last but not least, to your question. Yes, keep banging her if you are enjoying yourself. No commitment, just sex, and possibly good company assuming she can hold a good convo. Just make sure you are protecting yourself because, yes, you are sharing her with multiple guys. But if on the other hand, that grosses you out, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea to "settle" for a commoner.

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At first, I thought "wild man", and then upon reading further down I realise, this is the norm.

Best of luck mate, just wear protection and get tested. (If you decide to continue and don't get tested, do not be surprised if there are any surprises)
 

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Should I keep smashing her or cut her loose for being too much of a degenerate?
just keep smashin if she’s hot, but never ever catch feelings. If you can’t do that then it would be a good idea to stop now, who knows what can happen within the next month or even 2 weeks from now.
On the bright side ,atleast you’re not the dumb boyfriend that’s kissing her in the mouth I feel pretty bad for him
 

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Thats the thing. Ive been spending money on her going out to clubs, restaurants, road trips etc. All the other guys shes fvcking just invite themselves over and smash or do somthing cheap like the beach. I kinda feel like a tool.
Stop spending money on her... Just start inviting your self over. Like the other dudes.
 

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why are you surprised? if you have a rotation and get several new women a month, the laws of math tell that at least some of the women are doing the same. when I read your first post and this one.. what changed for you??
 

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Thats the thing. Ive been spending money on her going out to clubs, restaurants, road trips etc. All the other guys shes fvcking just invite themselves over and smash or do somthing cheap like the beach. I kinda feel like a tool.
Then stop. Demote her to plate status like she did with you, find other women, or just don't bother with her unless the sex is really good and/or she's really hot.
 

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This girl ive been smashing for the past two months left her IG signed into my phone and ive been reading all her messages for the past 2 weeks. Holy chit. I knew she had a semi-bf who she was cheating on but i didnt know that shes also fvcking at least 3 other guys. This week she banged one dude on Tuesday, another one on wensday, and today shes posting stories of her and the bf like nothing. Even tho shes just a FWB its still a huge turn off knowing shes banging a bunch of other guys and im not sure if i should see her anymore. Like im nothing special to her just another dude in her rotation. Idk why this turned me off so much even tho i dont have feelings for her

Seems you have more feelings than you would like to admit. If you didnt, you wouldnt have opened that IG account nor would you have made a thread about this saying you are bothered.

Its prob mostly your ego though. I would personally rather pay for an escort than be spending any money on a girl like this. Just treat her like sh@t.

Invite urself over or her over. Make her do random stuff for you lioe pick up sone food on the way over or massage you when you want.

Kick her out immediately after sex. Talk down to her like the sloot she is. Degrade her. Force her to do filthy sex acts. She will like you more. Then just ghost her.

Western women are like this because our snowflake sjw culture doesnt slut shame anymore.
 
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