Girl knows our game.

[A_BetterMAN]

I was talking to this girl the other time and it was doing great. good eyecontact and kino ... half way as the convo dropped off a bit i neg her painted nails she hits me and then...she goes "you are a player arent you ? is that ur routine with everygirl?"

I was stunned... so I managed an akward smile and thankfully my friend came up and asked me a question right at that moment so i didnt need to reply and left

What should I have done ? is this a common thing ? this is my first time a girl said that to me and thankfully i think i didnt screw it up. but it could have been better...

 

[Eccentric]

She doesn't know our game. That's just a normall bull**** response, a **** test. 100-1 she uses that line with every guy.

 

[Weak_Game]

This is the internet... this material is canned. Enough people are using the same crap at some point girls are going to hear it over and over.

My advice dont use canned material.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This is the internet... this material is canned. Enough people are using the same crap at some point girls are going to hear it over and over.

My advice dont use canned material.

I agree.

 

[OfficeSpace]

Nah, I tend to think she says that since that's what most girls say when a guy is smooth with them... They're not used to it and when a guy comes along that knows how to handle himself, they instantly assume "player." If she asks if you're a player.. just smile, and take it as a compliment because you're doing a good job with her.

 

[Eccentric]

Girl: Are you a player?
Guy: Yes
Girl: So what makes you a player, hmmm?
Guy: Can you keep a secret?
Girl: Yup
Guy: So can I

Next topic.

 

[Delta]

it still works though. too hardwired.

delta

 

[d9930380]

I have had this said to me a few times. It was when I was really just interested in screwing her and she knew it.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I'm glad I never bought into all this neg hit BS.

You guys are pathetic.

 

[Remulak]

She may know your weak ass game but not mine. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/images/smilies//up.gif

 

[Eccentric]

They do work. But I like to be different in the approach. If a girl asked about her nails, I'd say something like:

Me - "That's a nice color, although I'm going with a lighter color myself."
Her - "Oh so you're getting your nails done too? LOL"
Me - "Yeah, laugh all you want now. But my nails are going to be WAY sexier, you'll see."
Her - "Uhmm I don't think so!! [insert humorous remark]."

Blah blah blah, whatevers next.

See, no reason to get her asking "Am I a player?", yet the same outcome. Neg hits without a sense of humor come off as rude and insulting. It's a timely placed tease.

 

[khash]

yea...

girl: are you a player?
guy: of course...i love video games almost as much as you do, you nerd!

ha ha ha

 

[dirtyvibe]

girl + friend has heard the opener before..

are you guys part of a group that goes arround and asks girls questions?
me: yeah.
whatt???? shocked look
me: we're porn stars. my asian wing there is Hung Lo.

 

[Distant Light]

Its something called frame control, if you had a strong frame you would have blown passed that sh!t test. An just because he used canned material you tell him not to use it. Let me teach yall something if yall don't already know, Sh!t tests actually show that she is getting attracted to you, if she isn't sh!t testing you then there probably isn't much attraction. You my friend were getting attraction you should have just stayed in there. Read Tds post on sh!t test over at asf.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm glad I never bought into all this neg hit BS.

Join the club brutha....

 

[backbreaker]

first of all, she though you a bone and you were to damn stupid to pick it up.

any girl who asks you are you a player, are you single, why don't you have a GF, anything of the like, is thinking of you in a sexual manner... at least to some extent.

however, the trick is, to not take them seriously.

Am I a player? Are you?

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

lol... now we need advice on how to handle **** tests. I wonder if we could write them all down? I would have asked her if she likes playing the game and does she have any pointers to share with me to get in her pants faster cause there is another hottie over there that I'd like to do when I'm done with her... lol

 

[Krang!]

Offcourse girls know our game - they know it's the sole reason we speak to them: to sleep with them. It doesnt matter...

 

[Blusher]

She thinks you're a player? So what?

Better a player than a shy AFC not daring to look her in the eyes.
Only AFC's think, mostly out of frustration, being a player is something to be ashamed of.

Now back to your situation.

- You're a player aren't you?
- Damn! Busted! (and just laugh)

- You have this routine with every girl?
- No, that's an easy one I only use it with blondes.

 

[charlezz]

HB : Are you a player? Do you use this routine to all girls?
Guy: Do you ask every guy this question too? Hey Hi 5!