"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl kisses her "friend"

trv26

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Yeh i read that statistic, but was hoping she was in the top 1/3rd :p. Sadly it seems not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrRuckus

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There are no kissing "accidents." I've never accidentally kissed a girl in my life.

She consciously decided to do what she did without regard for you, then when her guilt ate at her, she told you not because you deserved to know, but because it would make HER feel better.

It's pathetic to keep her around after that disrespect. You shouldn't be in a LDR anyway.

When I was 20, I was screwing a girl who had a boyfriend at another college. She decided she felt guilty about it. She told the boyfriend. They didn't break up. She went right back to screwing me soon after. All she cared about temporarily was her own conscious.

If anything, i'd say to keep her around and use her to keep fvcking until she caught on you weren't really in a relationship anymore, but since it's long distance i'd say just walk away and to hell with it.
 
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