Girl keeps asking favors...

[styleman]

Examples:

1. Pick up clothes for her sister who lives abroad and courier them to her sister because the girl was at work.
2. Drop keys that she left with me.
3. Went shopping together 'Can you take my bags home and drop them to me tomorrow because my arms hurt' (She lives 2 subways stops away from me on the same line and we were going home on the subway)
4. When she's sick, asks me to bring her lunch, medicine etc.
5. 'Can you walk me home?' (not that I wouldn't do that anyway...???)
6. She's going out of town - 'Will you come with me to the airport / train station'
etc. etc. etc.

Are these bad signs???

 

[DonJuan11]

Examples:

1. Pick up clothes for her sister who lives abroad and courier them to her sister because the girl was at work.
2. Drop keys that she left with me.
3. Went shopping together 'Can you take my bags home and drop them to me tomorrow because my arms hurt' (She lives 2 subways stops away from me on the same line and we were going home on the subway)
4. When she's sick, asks me to bring her lunch, medicine etc.
5. 'Can you walk me home?' (not that I wouldn't do that anyway...???)
6. She's going out of town - 'Will you come with me to the airport / train station'
etc. etc. etc.

Are these bad signs???

If she's not sleeping with you, yes.

 

[I'm Charming]

Sounds like she's not doing you any favours, why should you be doing her any?

 

[suavesuave]

Sounds like she's not doing you any favours, why should you be doing her any?

what is wrong helping someone?

 

[I'm Charming]

Nothings wrong with helping someone, although when people ask for excessive favours then they're starting to abuse your friendship really, I wouldnt go out of my way to help someone over and over again if they werent going to help my needs out at somepoint.

 

[faiNt`]

Next time she asks you something, stare at her and don't move till she says something. When she does, interupt with "on your knees and I'll think about it .."

Should work ^_^

 

[Rhoto]

what is wrong helping someone?

Because, unless you enjoy wasting your life doing other's dirty work, its a pretty sad way of living.

Big difference between helping and being used.

 

[TanzaniaMan]

She is probably too busy gettin the shyt f'd out of her by some DJ to do it herself, and needs an AFC like you to run all her errands for her.

 

[Groovy]

You should have a life on your own. Aren't you too busy for these things?!

If you want to help her, help her.

If you're too bored for it and she doesn't ask you nicley forget it!!

That would save you a lot of trobule.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Are you getting any tail here? If not, you should be answering "no" when she asks questions 1-6.

 

[DrD77]

exactly. if you aren't getting any and she's doing nothing for you, then i wouldn't do anything else for her.