SandHawk
Master Don Juan
This thread is over. There is plenty of good advice in it, and I've learned from my mistake. Time to spin more plates.
While the solutions prescribed already are fairly accurate, there's risk involved in every relationship. I think we should just all face it, as long as you are dating women and having relations with them, there is a CHANCE that the girl could be cheating on you, could wake up one day and be a total b.itch, etc. There is NO REAL CUSHION that you can place under you to stop you from getting your heartbroken or getting burned. NONE.I've been dating a girl for the past 3 months, and we've been exclusive for about 2 months and I just found out what I already expected but couldn't prove: I've been led on.
When we started f*cking, she was seeing some other dude from the dance school we both go to. While I was fine with that in the beginning, I gradually discovered that this dude was a major **** and after about a month and discovered that she had a pretty high IL, I told her it was either my way or the highway(ie, get rid of him). Next day, she was in my bed in a corset and stockings. Ever since, the sex has been on a rise and was getting better and better.
However, I was suspecting she was still in contact with the other dude but that she didn't have sex with him. However, through a mutual friend, I just discovered that she still hasn't told him about me, doesn't know what to do and apparantly still has some feelings for him, even tho telling me other wise, how she moved on and ****.
In short: Women cannot be trusted, I should have known better.
I'm not looking for advice here, because I'm dumping her.
Dyslexic rules KO - and don't forget it....Julius_Seizeher said:Backbreaker! You're a dyslexic mtherofukecr, but I love you.
Okay but isn't everything you just typed mostly just Sosuave babble? Does it even truly apply in REAL LIFE most of the time? You mentioned Pook, but even Pook began to change alot of his concepts and stances on things through his blog and sort of began to mirror alot of the negative women-bashing concepts that you see around the Mature Man Forum today.Too many people here think by "rules" and what is "fair".
That will cripple you in the dating market. Women play by no such rules.
If a woman has multiple plates, and you are ok with it, that makes you "Beta". You automatically lose status in her eyes.
If a man has multiple plates, yes she will hate sharing you, and some women may not even put up with it. But remember the golden rule of women.
Five minutes with an Alpha is better than a lifetime with a Beta.
or another rule made famous by Pook I think...
Women would rather share a winner than have loser all to herself.
The main reason we advocate men spin plates is to be less needy. It helps them get rid of the dreaded one-itis disease.
The second reason is to learn what it is that we find most desirable in women. Too many men date and have a relationship with the first woman that comes along and accepts them.
Women typically do not have those two problems above. They have FAR more dating options then the majority of men. Many already know what they like and do not need to filter as much as men do.
If a woman is unsure of her interest in a you, then would you really want a relationship with her? Or to even bother wasting time dating her?
Absolutely. Most of the women I talk to say they either don't get approached often or the guys that approach them approach them off or their behavior is just totally unattractive.Do you think a woman would care if a man wasn't interested in her?