"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl just got canned - how to play it to my advantage?

ikkenai

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I'm seeing this peice of rear, and she just got fired from her job. How do I make this work for me?

Yes, it may seem heartless, but this board isn't about scruples now is it. Anyways, she's already pretty much in my pocket as is. Should I...

- Show lots of support? I'm don't want to show afc pity or anything like that.
- Ignore the issue? May be hard, but I don't want to become Oprah or an emotional tampon by being too attentive.
- Try to cheer her up?

How do you play such occurances?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ezilonman

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Get her a Job.

Man...this girl may be looking for a sugar daddy...someone to support her for now. See if she wants you to foot the bill for everything.
 
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