Alright, well here is my story, a couple weeks ago, i met this girl at a party, we hit it off, i got a her number all was good. We liked eachother, but anyways just three days ago she got a boyfriend, well i was still flirting with her and she was still flirting with me. Well at the football game a couple nights ago we were having a good time, hangin out, her boyfriend some band kid wasnt with her but this other guy was trying to hook up with her, and i sort of ****blocked him because i was all over her. Anyways he got jealous and texted her boyfriend saying how i was all over his girl and that crap, anyways, then yesterday, she decided she was gonna break up with him and was gonna go out with me. The breakup escalated and im sort of in the middle of it now, and my philosophy is im this far in might as well go for the win and go out with her. But i ran into more issues that guy is freaking out cussin me out and stuff because i stole his girl. And they are startin s*** throughout school. I come here to ask this should i go for it and shrug it off if it doesn't work out or next her and move on because she's a flirt?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
If he can and will kick your ass...don't do it haha. But seriously I say go for it if you want, but just think for a second...she so blatantly disrespected this guy, who is to say she won't do the same for you? So if you're gonna go through with it, KEEP YOUR FEELINGS IN CHECK! Don't go falling in love with some girl who keeps changing her mind.
Also, IF you think this guy has the power to damage your reputation...and you don't want that to happen, think twice about the whole thing.
Like I said, weigh all the pros and cons and if at the end of the day you still want to get in her pants, go ahead, just keep your emotions out of it
Also, IF you think this guy has the power to damage your reputation...and you don't want that to happen, think twice about the whole thing.
Like I said, weigh all the pros and cons and if at the end of the day you still want to get in her pants, go ahead, just keep your emotions out of it
Joshski
Don Juan
Here's what I think...
Would you rather
1) Be disrespected and not be with the girl
or
2) Be disrespected and be with the girl
The old boyfriend already has his mind set that you've been doing things with his gf so he's not going to stop even though you're not with her.
Would you rather
1) Be disrespected and not be with the girl
or
2) Be disrespected and be with the girl
The old boyfriend already has his mind set that you've been doing things with his gf so he's not going to stop even though you're not with her.
the girl is a senior, and her ex was a sophmore. I highly doubt he can kick my ass, but then again i hang out with alot of the "gansters" so to speak and i actually have friends that i can count on to back me up, while sadly the guy thats threatening me has no back up and im pretty sure hes one of those kids whos all talk and no action. My mind is pretty much set on go out with her, but keep in check and, if she cheated on him with me, i just need to watch for the signs shes cheating on me.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
I say go for it...lol here in my country we call what you are doin 'STINA!'...which literally means hittin someone with a brick but we mean it in a figuratively way, I say stina that guy!
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Haha, i totally understand that, but from the looks of this girl, i might flirt with her a little here and there but the last few days shes comin off as if shes liking 2 guys fighting for her, which i'm starting to think shes becomin a waste of time, and is just a drama queen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Ain't that just a bummer! Oh so her ex bf wants her back? I thought you could have nailed her by now, but if she is one of those girls I say let go, plenty of women out there who won't need this much effort