Alright, well here is my story, a couple weeks ago, i met this girl at a party, we hit it off, i got a her number all was good. We liked eachother, but anyways just three days ago she got a boyfriend, well i was still flirting with her and she was still flirting with me. Well at the football game a couple nights ago we were having a good time, hangin out, her boyfriend some band kid wasnt with her but this other guy was trying to hook up with her, and i sort of ****blocked him because i was all over her. Anyways he got jealous and texted her boyfriend saying how i was all over his girl and that crap, anyways, then yesterday, she decided she was gonna break up with him and was gonna go out with me. The breakup escalated and im sort of in the middle of it now, and my philosophy is im this far in might as well go for the win and go out with her. But i ran into more issues that guy is freaking out cussin me out and stuff because i stole his girl. And they are startin s*** throughout school. I come here to ask this should i go for it and shrug it off if it doesn't work out or next her and move on because she's a flirt?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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ARrocket
Master Don Juan
If he can and will kick your ass...don't do it haha. But seriously I say go for it if you want, but just think for a second...she so blatantly disrespected this guy, who is to say she won't do the same for you? So if you're gonna go through with it, KEEP YOUR FEELINGS IN CHECK! Don't go falling in love with some girl who keeps changing her mind.
Also, IF you think this guy has the power to damage your reputation...and you don't want that to happen, think twice about the whole thing.
Like I said, weigh all the pros and cons and if at the end of the day you still want to get in her pants, go ahead, just keep your emotions out of it
Also, IF you think this guy has the power to damage your reputation...and you don't want that to happen, think twice about the whole thing.
Like I said, weigh all the pros and cons and if at the end of the day you still want to get in her pants, go ahead, just keep your emotions out of it
Joshski
Don Juan
Here's what I think...
Would you rather
1) Be disrespected and not be with the girl
or
2) Be disrespected and be with the girl
The old boyfriend already has his mind set that you've been doing things with his gf so he's not going to stop even though you're not with her.
Would you rather
1) Be disrespected and not be with the girl
or
2) Be disrespected and be with the girl
The old boyfriend already has his mind set that you've been doing things with his gf so he's not going to stop even though you're not with her.
the girl is a senior, and her ex was a sophmore. I highly doubt he can kick my ass, but then again i hang out with alot of the "gansters" so to speak and i actually have friends that i can count on to back me up, while sadly the guy thats threatening me has no back up and im pretty sure hes one of those kids whos all talk and no action. My mind is pretty much set on go out with her, but keep in check and, if she cheated on him with me, i just need to watch for the signs shes cheating on me.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
I say go for it...lol here in my country we call what you are doin 'STINA!'...which literally means hittin someone with a brick but we mean it in a figuratively way, I say stina that guy!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Haha, i totally understand that, but from the looks of this girl, i might flirt with her a little here and there but the last few days shes comin off as if shes liking 2 guys fighting for her, which i'm starting to think shes becomin a waste of time, and is just a drama queen.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Ain't that just a bummer! Oh so her ex bf wants her back? I thought you could have nailed her by now, but if she is one of those girls I say let go, plenty of women out there who won't need this much effort