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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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girl is teasing me on purpose because i betrayed her trust..

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carlitos

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this girl that i'm seeing (strong vibe) was all into me at first and hinted that she wanted something serious with me...but i ****ed it up at the time by not playing it right and still partying with other girls..

now that i kinda want her back she doesn't say she's mad at me but she's just teasing me like breaking plans..in fact the other day she was at my place we were making out like crazy and **** but i didnt get to **** her cus it was in the afternoon and timing was an issue..so she said she'll see me on saturday but didnt show up..

i know it's one thing to forget about her...but now i wanna try to reverse the situation more because i just want to know how to..

one of my friends who is really good with women says table can be turned by many ways...one is to surprise..

also do you think she's teasing me because i'm giving her the upper hand?

what do you think i should do guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do something I call "up the ante"

She's playing, so you just up the ante.

Don't call her, txt her or try to see her. Most guys will give her more attention which is the wrong thing to do.

You dont want to give her attention when her energy is off.... this just reinforces bad behavior.

Be patient and she'll probably start to initiate talk with you at some point.
 
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quick relevant question to thread and davems response.....if a girl sorta flakes on you, or you end a phone conversation on a sorta bad note, should you wait on her to initiate too? Ive got same problem, I had the flu for a while so I Couldnt go out and now girl is teasing me and saying shes busy on the whole date where previously she would fit me in her not-so-busy schedule.
 
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carlitos said:
also do you think she's teasing me because i'm giving her the upper hand?

what do you think i should do guys?
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Sounds like you answered your own question.

Stop giving her the power, and she'll stop having it.
 
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