"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl is nervous to contact me

seabumma

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Say you know a girl is the nervous and shy type and doesnt talk much on the phone, even though she really has a desire to. She sends you a text, but instead of having a text conversation, you want to talk over the phone. Do you send her a text back saying "hey why dont you call?" to make her feel at ease. or do you just call her yourself?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hot Alpha Female

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DonS has the best advice here.

She is comfortable with texting, but build her comfort while she is with you on the phone.

If she is shy like you says she is, there there is not a chance .. that she is going to pick up the phone and call you.

The most she will do is send you an random text msg.
 
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