"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl is mad because I was tagged on facebook

JPlaya

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Apparently it was with some girl she disliked. Immediatly after that she cussed me out and started giving me one word responses and told me to **** off
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Down Low

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See? Have a Pvssybook page, and you get treated like a b1tch and get involved in sissy catfights.
 

SgtSplacker

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Dude I got out of a 7 year relationship about a year ago. I was single at first, no plates being spun. I was on Facebook alot, kinda getting my ho legs back. As soon as I started dating I cut my Facebook down by 95%. Girls love to investigate men on fbook. They love getting all catty with each other on fbook.

You either max out your security settings on fbook, or just don't add these girls to your fbook, or just dont use fbook at all and maybe get on twitter to pass the time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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European-DJ

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The only thing keeping me from deleting facebook, is the "event" section, and the group from my class in Uni.

If i didn't use thoose two, heck, if my class mates wasn't using a facebook group room, i would have deleted it this instance .
 

Johnnyventana

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It's a good sign she cares so much to go cray cray for such a lame thing. Not relationship material, but a f buddy for sure. Simply go ghost on her, and watch her come sulking back. Then nail her. Done. Do not apologize for being tagged in a photo! That's pretty common and normal. Don't give in to her crazy frame.
 

J Roc

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There is an option in your privacy settings to "approve tag requests". i suggest you turn that on...
 

JPlaya

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Found out my friend did a lot more stuff in which it made things more awkward. I'm done with this *****. I deleted her off my phone, so there's is no way I can initiate any contact.
 
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