"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl is mad at me

eko

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she's my prom date and she overheard me calling her a b*tch or something and found out i was hooking up with other girls. she was one of those shy girls.. I heard she used to like me, but i think got nervous around me so i nexted her because we would never really talk or anything. now prom is coming up on friday and she completely avoids me... what should I do? I don't really think she's a b*tch, she's just quiet and shy and I feel really really bad for what I said now. But there's no taking it back. Should I apologize to her?

And here's another dilemna. After prom I was invited to a party (this girl i'm hooking up with is gonna be there), but my date (the shy girl) is going to post prom. Should I skip post prom and hook up with the girl? I don't wanna hurt shy girl's feelings too much and have all her friends hate me for first calling her a b*tch then ditching her at post prom too.

And to make it even worse... there is a 3rd girl that likes me and probably wouldn't if i hooked up with that other girl again. she is the most 'worth it' in terms of a LTR since we get along well and everything... shes gonna be at prom but doesn't like her date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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R4dianeclipse

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Ummm, I don't really know how reply to this. Sounds like a bunch of stupid drama, who cares? Do whatever the hell you want.
 

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Three girls? Pick the BEST one for you if you want a relationship. If you want easy lay, pick the one you know you can have. If you want to spit game, hook more girls.
 
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