"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl is lying about STDs

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Started talking to a new girl...I recently heard from a few good sources that she contracted HPV last year from having unprotected sex while drunk ...I asked her about hpv in a way that made it seem that I didn't know the story and she denied having it, several times. She has never blatantly stated she has it

She's really hot with a smoking body but I'm thinking of just dropping her. If she can lie to me about this who knows what else she may have, any one agree?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HPV is common and treatable. Unless you're talking about Herpes, which is not. Maybe she isn't ready to talk to you about it.
 
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GS750 said:
HPV is common and treatable. Unless you're talking about Herpes, which is not. Maybe she isn't ready to talk to you about it.
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Agreed, I'm thinking the OP is confusing HPV with herpes.

If its early on in you two hanging out its not really your business. I'd keep hanging with her and see what happens.






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that's that I think, he may have the two mixed up. still, they're not dating, so her medical history really isn't a concern right now.
 
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Pimp-sicle said:
Agreed, I'm thinking the OP is confusing HPV with herpes.

If its early on in you two hanging out its not really your business. I'd keep hanging with her and see what happens.






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It may not be his business if they're just "hanging out", but if he's putting his di*k inside her it's definitely his business.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude a girl isn't going to randomly tell you "I have hpv" or whatever. Most of the time a girl would tell you right before sex. Think from her perspective guy says"uhhh soo uhhh HPV?". She's obviously embarrassed and wouldn't want to tell anyone, 0 girls in the world would tell someone who asked them this question. 0 exactly 0.
 
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the question is not whether she had it or not, the question is if it's cured and if you can get it and what the symptoms are in men.
 
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I'm well aware of what herpes vs. hpv is, i know she has had HPV, I'm not too sure which strand she might have, usually in pap smears, 16 & 18 pop up which are the ones who have the probability of causing cancer.

She wants to be sexual with me and I know it's not my place yet but if you're talking about sex with me and I passively bring HPV/STD sexual history up the least a responsible person can do is to tell me. What do you all think?
 
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I really don't see what options you have beyond ditching her, turning a blind eye and (foolishly) hoping for the best, or requesting that she take an STD test (which, to my knowledge, does not test for HPV? Someone please correct me if I'm wrong here)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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About 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that most sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives. Health problems related to HPV include genital warts and cervical cancer.

You will get HPV eventually so you might as well **** this girl.
 
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Agreed. Just wear a rubber.
 
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J Roc said:
About 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that most sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives. Health problems related to HPV include genital warts and cervical cancer.

You will get HPV eventually so you might as well **** this girl.
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Why you gotta be so rude?
Don't you know I'm human too
Why you gotta be so rude
I'm gonna f**k her anyway
(F**k that girl) F**k her anyway
(F**k that girl) Yeah no matter what you say
(F**k that girl) And we'll be a family

Wear a condom though.
 
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Wrap up, and I got vaccinated for HPV. If you ask they'll give it to you. Series takes six months.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HPV?

All of you who have ever had sex, with at least one partner who wasn't a virgin before being with you, have had HPV. So most of you have it. Get over it and worry about more serious STI's.
 
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