"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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50-59% -- RED ZONE!!! Its still salvageable, but you have to play your cards right. She feels attracted to you, but has doubts in her mind, and isn’t sure where it will go. When you see her, she may be happy to see you, and you get along great. Heavy flirting and even sex may happen. Although, she seems to have to take off early sometimes, or something came up. The time you spend together seems enjoyable, but she isn’t as available as she SHOULD be. Random things come up now and then, and although she doesn‘t have time for you, she has time for her friends.

Don’t take anything personally at this point. A girl like this will attract AFCs well because it quite often toys with their hopes. STOP CALLING HER 10 TIMES A DAY OR YOU WILL MESS THIS UP!!! The trick here is make yourself less available. Give her less attention, and give other girls more attention. Toss a few neg hits, and be more ****y, and for gods sakes, READ THE DJ BIBLE! Don’t call her for a week or two, and don’t act depressed or desperate. DO NOT TELL HER HOW SPECIAL SHE IS OR HOW WONDERFUL SHE MAKES YOU FEEL!! That is total BS and you know it. She is not making you feel good. If you are an AFC, she is toying with your emotions and hopes. If you are a DJ, it’s a more challenging situation to put your skills to the test, and see if you can get her interest level up. Besides who needs her? There are over 3 billion other girls out there. The most important part if her IL is this high (and some girls you meet will start with this much interest) is make sure you don’t look desperate. They can smell it a mile away, and they think it stinks. Desperation = creepy dude, get away. Aloft = I wonder if I can get his attention?

What do i do what do i text her when i want her to come over? How do i act? Whats social proof
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You should try to increase it back to 99, percent by percent.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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