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Girl is flirting with other guys in front of meh!?

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Someone once said to me, "*****es will be *****es."

She was just being a girl. Girls "flirt" with other guys all the time, dude, relax and let it go.

Maybe, next time, if he's escalating it a little too far, step in and say something, but if it was just harmless flirting, chill out.

Furthermore, as to what you should do now, as long as you didn't get all pissy that she was talking to another guy and got all sour for the rest of the night, see what's she's up too.

I mean, really, are we so immature that we have to "punish" her (by giving her the silent treatment, cuz let's face it that's what these guys are suggesting by not talking to her) for talking to another guy? Get at her see what's shes up to, AND BE COOL!
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Yeah, i'm pretty much over it now, and think i overreacted just a bit much. Thing is, i offered her a fun planned date this week prior to the ex situation, but now im thinking that i should just push it to next week. I haven't contacted her yet, and see no point if i'll most likely see her Sunday at church. I figure we can work things out from there. The no contact, and my non-mentioning of the promised date should definitely re-kindle her IL if it was diminishing.
 

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UPDATE! - sent her a semi-desperation text yesterday like a chump, and she hasn't responded yet. Man forget this woman, i can do way better :crackup:
 
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UPDATE! - sent her a semi-desperation text yesterday like a chump, and she hasn't responded yet. Man forget this woman, i can do way better :crackup:
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Well if she wants to have sex, which she does, and you can't or don't want to because of your religious beliefs (which is another subject all together-the bible and religion in general is just a way for the powers to be to control the masses) then you two shouldn't be together anyway. Just like if a guy who wanted to have sex was with a girl who didnt want to have sex because of religion, we would all tell him to next her.

In this case, she should next you, and it appears she did!
 
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Well if she wants to have sex, which she does, and you can't or don't want to because of your religious beliefs (which is another subject all together-the bible and religion in general is just a way for the powers to be to control the masses) then you two shouldn't be together anyway. Just like if a guy who wanted to have sex was with a girl who didnt want to have sex because of religion, we would all tell him to next her.

In this case, she should next you, and it appears she did!
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Yes, I didn't see that in the post originally.

She was craving d8ck big time, and yet you wonder why she would flirt with other guys when you wouldn't give it to her?

What is the perfect way to control the masses? Religion = Subservience, Control and Conformity.

By setting rules in place that are the direct opposite of what you feel is right based on hundreds of thousands of years of evolution, and make people feel a sense of shame for when they follow their biological urges.

/end rant
 
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