I was out getting some drinks last night when a girl I met one other time was out with her friend. She called me and wanted to know what I was up to. I told her that I was waiting for a buddy and his friend to meet up with me. Anyway, she ends up coming to see me with one of her friends.
This wasn't a girl I was interested in as I didn't really even know her. Fast forward and my buddy who was from out of town never shows and it's me, this girl, and her friend. We go to a different bar and things are going well. I am giving her a hard time, we are making fun of her friend who is trying to hit on all these guys--then she says: "are you ready to go?"
Sure.
So, she just moved into a new apartment. This was her first night in her new apartment and it was a few blocks away.
We walk to her place, she gets undressed in front of me and puts on sweats, etc. and climbs into bed. We start making out, and she enjoys it, then it seems she doesn't. I wasn't going to be upset if sex wasn't going to happen. I wasn't prepared with protection anyway. But, then out of nowhere, she says "I just want to sleep in my new apartment." And she starts to cry. I was like, umm...
It really made me feel like a rapist or something. I mean, there was no naked-ness, just kissing, but when she starts crying I feel like a jackass. :cuss:
So, anyway, I get my shoes back on and tell her I'll leave her alone. I get up and she gets up and I give her a hug and try to calm her down. So, I leave and that was that.
This is a really brief explanation. I wouldn't mind having a FB with this girl, but I have no idea where her head is at. Obviously, interest was high or she would have just left with her friend. Obviously, something was there. Maybe I said something to mess it up, I really have no clue. :crazy:
Yes, I had been drinking quite a bit, as did she. But, I would know if I said something inappropriate. Only thing I did was make the moves and try and keep things going......
Good grief. This was really a chance encounter. I wasn't 'gaming' this girl before. And it actually worked out well that she met up with me, as my "buddy" stood me up. So, not a tough loss here or anything.
But a confusing situation.
This wasn't a girl I was interested in as I didn't really even know her. Fast forward and my buddy who was from out of town never shows and it's me, this girl, and her friend. We go to a different bar and things are going well. I am giving her a hard time, we are making fun of her friend who is trying to hit on all these guys--then she says: "are you ready to go?"
Sure.
So, she just moved into a new apartment. This was her first night in her new apartment and it was a few blocks away.
We walk to her place, she gets undressed in front of me and puts on sweats, etc. and climbs into bed. We start making out, and she enjoys it, then it seems she doesn't. I wasn't going to be upset if sex wasn't going to happen. I wasn't prepared with protection anyway. But, then out of nowhere, she says "I just want to sleep in my new apartment." And she starts to cry. I was like, umm...
It really made me feel like a rapist or something. I mean, there was no naked-ness, just kissing, but when she starts crying I feel like a jackass. :cuss:
So, anyway, I get my shoes back on and tell her I'll leave her alone. I get up and she gets up and I give her a hug and try to calm her down. So, I leave and that was that.
This is a really brief explanation. I wouldn't mind having a FB with this girl, but I have no idea where her head is at. Obviously, interest was high or she would have just left with her friend. Obviously, something was there. Maybe I said something to mess it up, I really have no clue. :crazy:
Yes, I had been drinking quite a bit, as did she. But, I would know if I said something inappropriate. Only thing I did was make the moves and try and keep things going......
Good grief. This was really a chance encounter. I wasn't 'gaming' this girl before. And it actually worked out well that she met up with me, as my "buddy" stood me up. So, not a tough loss here or anything.
But a confusing situation.