"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl invited me for dinner.. Kind of mad.

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So, my car is in the shop and she lives a good 2 hour bus ride away and this girl wants to cook food for me.

I said sure. So in my mind Im thinking Hey! Why not! Food and sex! ... or just food? I had to make sure, because I wasnt willing to spend $40 in bus fare and 4 hours of my life travelling just for food.

I decided to send out an innuendo to fish. Did the good ol sausage in the oven line. Her reply? She said "If it was for food sure." And asked if it was spicy. Thats it.

I have a strong feeling shes not playing hard to get, and Im positive the question about how spicy the sausage is, is not an innuendo back at me. but who invites someone over for dinner after meeting them once.

Whats your take on this DJs? Age is 20-24 shes an HB 9 with a booty. Should I go? Anything witty I should say to reply?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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go ... she's not going to place her vaginal in a silver platter. you have to spit )that game...so go buy a bottle of chardonnay (Moscato) and head over
 

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Tiguere said:
go ... she's not going to place her vaginal in a silver platter. you have to spit )that game...so go buy a bottle of chardonnay (Moscato) and head over

Dont even know if she drinks. I myself like to dive in a pool full of alcohol though.
 

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Too much effort for a low probability of payback IMO. Personally, I wouldn't go, but then I like to set up a sure thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wouldn't go. Your text already put her on anti-slut guard, and if she knows you went 4 hours out of your way to get there expecting sex she's gonna go out of her way to keep her legs clamped. Wait till your car gets out of the shop, rinse & repeat another date
 

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We talked a bit more, may have gotten myself out of the anti-slut gaurd situation.

Tell you guys what, ill find a better way to get there (Maybe a ride from a friend) that way Ill be spending next to nill and taking about an hour of my life to travel (30 mins there, 30 back)

Ill tell you guys how it goes. But Cassaanova is right. I played it off though, made it look more like a playful joke and went completely back on topic about our plans. We shall see how this goes.


Oh yeah she doesnt know how far I live, and I havnt exposed that because of the whole Oh my god Hes so desperate situation. Definitely not going if I cant get a ride though. I already rainchecked her once.
 
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