"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl invited me for dinner.. Kind of mad.

SpazzAttackk

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So, my car is in the shop and she lives a good 2 hour bus ride away and this girl wants to cook food for me.

I said sure. So in my mind Im thinking Hey! Why not! Food and sex! ... or just food? I had to make sure, because I wasnt willing to spend $40 in bus fare and 4 hours of my life travelling just for food.

I decided to send out an innuendo to fish. Did the good ol sausage in the oven line. Her reply? She said "If it was for food sure." And asked if it was spicy. Thats it.

I have a strong feeling shes not playing hard to get, and Im positive the question about how spicy the sausage is, is not an innuendo back at me. but who invites someone over for dinner after meeting them once.

Whats your take on this DJs? Age is 20-24 shes an HB 9 with a booty. Should I go? Anything witty I should say to reply?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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go ... she's not going to place her vaginal in a silver platter. you have to spit )that game...so go buy a bottle of chardonnay (Moscato) and head over
 

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Tiguere said:
go ... she's not going to place her vaginal in a silver platter. you have to spit )that game...so go buy a bottle of chardonnay (Moscato) and head over

Dont even know if she drinks. I myself like to dive in a pool full of alcohol though.
 

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Too much effort for a low probability of payback IMO. Personally, I wouldn't go, but then I like to set up a sure thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't go. Your text already put her on anti-slut guard, and if she knows you went 4 hours out of your way to get there expecting sex she's gonna go out of her way to keep her legs clamped. Wait till your car gets out of the shop, rinse & repeat another date
 

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We talked a bit more, may have gotten myself out of the anti-slut gaurd situation.

Tell you guys what, ill find a better way to get there (Maybe a ride from a friend) that way Ill be spending next to nill and taking about an hour of my life to travel (30 mins there, 30 back)

Ill tell you guys how it goes. But Cassaanova is right. I played it off though, made it look more like a playful joke and went completely back on topic about our plans. We shall see how this goes.


Oh yeah she doesnt know how far I live, and I havnt exposed that because of the whole Oh my god Hes so desperate situation. Definitely not going if I cant get a ride though. I already rainchecked her once.
 
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