"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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girl introducing herself to me

adam22

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at a party the other day this girl was there that ive always seen before in the halls and stuff but never talked to. shes pretty hot and kept staring at me . she finally came near me and introduced herlself to me out of nowhere and asked my name. Does that mean she liked me or what? im in hs by the way
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ummm...yeah...i think that she just might.

but since you are in HS, i would really suggest you use the HS forum. i think you would find it more appealing to your liking.
 

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If you introduced yourself to a random girl at a party and struck up a conversation with her, does that mean you're interested? Think about it.
 

Porky

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Now thats real Game Porkie pie.
I rarely know what you're talking about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Either she digs you deeply or this is a trap - takes a lot of nerve for a woman to approach a man - did you find out what she wanted with you? Her questions/convo should have been a clue.
 

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Grow a sac, man.
 
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