"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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icallug

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k so ive been friends with this girl at school for...4 years now, and lately ive noticed her attitude towards me has changed a lot. ive caught her staring at me a numerous amount of times, and i hold her eye contact and smile at her occasionaly cracking a joke on how shes staring at me. we were at a dance last weekend and when i was dancing with other girls i noticed her watching and she even grabbed my hand and pulled me away while i was dancing with another girl. she always laughs at things i say, even if they are lame has hell.

i think im gonna go for her and see what shes doing this weekend, what do you guys think i should do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JSH

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You got it in one, GO FOR HER, and then go for the kiss. Jesus so much data redundancy, do us a favour and use the search button. I'm sorry, but everyone asks the same questions.
 

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Green light means GO.
 

Jerky Boi

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Man, she couldn't be anymore obvious. You got it buddy. Just go for it :]
 
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