"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl interested?

Army Strong

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So there's this girl from High School who never took notice of me until recently now that we're both in adult school.

She says hi every chance she gets, even from across the hallway, and when we pass right by each other she pats me on the elbow/arm while saying hi with my name attached.

I completely ignore her apart from saying hi.

So do I have a shot or what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pinhas

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Army Strong said:
So do I have a shot or what?
Why dont you talk to her and find out...?
 

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AlexLefty

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Espi said:
ALWAYS assume interest.

It's impossible for anyone on this website to guarantee whether (or not) she's interested.

So, just keep things simple and ALWAYS assume she's interested.
Agreed
She's interested as fvck it sounds like. Go for it, she IS interested...she IS interested...she IS interested.
 
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