"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl interested?

Army Strong

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So there's this girl from High School who never took notice of me until recently now that we're both in adult school.

She says hi every chance she gets, even from across the hallway, and when we pass right by each other she pats me on the elbow/arm while saying hi with my name attached.

I completely ignore her apart from saying hi.

So do I have a shot or what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pinhas

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Army Strong said:
So do I have a shot or what?
Why dont you talk to her and find out...?
 

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AlexLefty

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Espi said:
ALWAYS assume interest.

It's impossible for anyone on this website to guarantee whether (or not) she's interested.

So, just keep things simple and ALWAYS assume she's interested.
Agreed
She's interested as fvck it sounds like. Go for it, she IS interested...she IS interested...she IS interested.
 
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