Girl in the club

[baurman]

So I went to the club last night. And some guy approached me and was like "Yo my friend wants to dance with you!" and sure enough it was some hot HB9. So I go up to her and introduce myself, First thing she says "I'm so drunk!" but then we end up dancing. After a few songs, I pull her to the side and I ask her where she's from, etc. Come to find out she' s like 18 years old. I see her looking into my eyes as I talk to her so I lean into the kiss, and next thing I know we're making out, big time. We go and dance again. She tells me she has to leave and I tell her I wanna see her again, so we exchange numbers. About 20 minutes later I go outside, and I see her outside. She was talking to some other guy and they were kinda holding hands. And I go up to her and tell her wassup and she talks to me for a bit, but the guy doesn't say anything. All I hear the guy say is "Wanna put your bag in my car?" and then after that I just didn't care and started talking to my friends. Later that night, I texted her "Hey, Hope you get home safe drunky=)..." but I didn't get a respond back yet. Do I just forget about this wh0re? Or what should I do? Wait a few days and set-up a date to meet up and go out for Lunch/Dinner?

 

[AKA FLEX]

What did the barber say? "NEXT!"

When I was 21, I used to call chicks whose numbers I got in bars or clubs, but what I found is that with chicks like that, your best shot at getting laid is the night you meet them. Next time you meet a chick like the one from last night, f-close her on the spot and if you don't succeed, find another chick that night.

Unfortunately, you didn't close hard enough and left the door opened for that other jerk to do it for you. Her bags were in his car, but his bag was in her mouth later that night.

 

[baurman]

Hmm guess you're right. But how do you F-close if she has her girlfriend with her? Cause wouldn't she all be trying to get her not to leave with me? Do I just tell her like "Lets hook up" or like "Lets go back to my place..?"

 

[WC2]

This is just natural club-slut behavior. In this case, you engaged OK, but didn't really close on her. Like the previous poster said, number closes at clubs are almost always a no go, especially with drunk sluts.

If you really wanted to close this girl, I probably would have been a little more sexual with this girl and kept her interest high. After you hooked up with this chick, there was really no where else to go from there. You effectively lost her interest.

She became interested in someone else and unfortunately this dude knew how to close on this chick. Tough luck.

This is kind of like watching a woman's life (as far as relationships are concerned) in FAST motion. She becomes interested in some one, they get hot and heavy, they get comfortable, she loses interest, and she clings to the next guy. Funny isn't it?