Girl in my class gives me IOI's, need advice for this monday,

[TheGambino]

Dear brothers,

I want all your advice on this chick, how would you guys react and proceed.

This HB8 girl is in my class. I am a popular guy in class, guys are my buddies and I dated the hottest girl, the girl this post is about knows that. (The HB I dated 2 years ago is the reason I got on Sosuave, big AFC/White knight, dated her, thank god I met her, she opened my eyes)

Anyway 1.5-2 years ago I did a project outside school with this girl. We had fun, and she showed me IoI's, texting me at night, it was sexual once, eye contact and I even playfully grabbed her phone once and looked at pictures of her posing in lingerie, she loved it and she playfully tried to grabb her phone back, she started to blow up my phone from that day. Anyway I kinda ignored her after that because she has a LTR and the guy knows me vague.

I went to study in another city, now I moved back to my original village and Im in class with her again. From the day Im back shes looking at me again in class and we hang out in the hall in between the lessons.

I gave her a lot of attention and she kinda stepped back a bit I noticed so I totally backed off and was very short towards her, I saw she noticed that and she started to greet me every time and starting convo's everytime she sees me. I also notice when I look at girls she tries to get my attention and looks a bit mad. Since I gave her less attention she texts me everyday about school. Asking about marks or if I could send her something (a exercise, that happened once:today). Today for example she asks for something and I answered ye sure no problem.

This monday we have to go to a project outside of school again with the class and she asked me if I could pick her up 30 minutes before and bring her home again afterwards.

I think there is some potential here, the girl texts me, gives me attention, looks mad when I talk to other women and plays with her hair and her legs are always in my direction and she gives me the full attention.

Some of you guys will probably say shes using you for stuff but when I ask her to do something she does it straight away.

One big thing: she is still in a LTR, I think.

What are you guys opinion, how would you proceed, should I make a move?

 

[In2theGame]

Dear brothers,

I want all your advice on this chick, how would you guys react and proceed.

This HB8 girl is in my class. I am a popular guy in class, guys are my buddies and I dated the hottest girl, the girl this post is about knows that. (The HB I dated 2 years ago is the reason I got on Sosuave, big AFC/White knight, does dates, thank god I met her, she opened my eyes)

Anyway 1.5-2 years ago I did a project outside school with this girl. We had fun, and she showed me IoI's, texting me at night, it was sexual once, eye contact and I even playfully grabbed her phone once and looked at pictures of her posing in lingerie, she loved it and she playfully tried to grabb her phone back, she started to blow up my phone from that day. Anyway I kinda ignored her after that because she has a LTR and the guy knows me vague.

I went to study in another city, now I moved back to my original village and Im in class with her again. From the day Im back shes looking at me again in class and we hang out in the hall in between the lessons.

I gave her a lot of attention and she kinda stepped back a bit I noticed so I totally backed off and was very short towards her, I saw she noticed that and she started to greet me every time and starting convo's everytime she sees me. I also notice when I look at girls she tries to get my attention and looks a bit mad. Since I gave her less attention she texts me everyday about school. Asking about marks or if I could send her something (a exercise). Today for example she asks for something and I answered ye sure.

This monday we have to go to a project outside of school again with the class and she asked me if I could pick her up 30 minutes before and bring her home again afterwards.

I think there is some potential here, the girl texts me, gives me attention, looks mad when I talk to other women and plays with her hair and her legs are always in my direction and she gives me the full attention.

Some of you guys will probably say shes using you for stuff but when I ask her to do something she does it straight away.

One big thing: she is still in a LTR, I think.

What are you guys opinion, how would you proceed, should I make a move?

Before you think about something happening with this girl, Find out her situation because if shes still in a Relationship then she could just be bullsh*tting you for attention and you waste your time thinking about this girl. Ask her casually while you guys are having a conversation. Ask her if she's still seeing that guy... If she hesitates before saying yes, then shes open for you to snatch her, If she is then say ohh okay cool. Then back up from being her attention boy toy. Be straight up with her and tell her you want to take her out. Period.

 

[SeymourCake]

She's using you for validation if she's in a LTR. Her boyfriend isn't giving her the attention and emotional needs she wants and she's seeking it from you. I'm sure if you were to successfully game her, she would return to her boyfriend after the semester ended or before it. Things could get ugly. I wouldn't mess with that. If she's willing to cheat on her boyfriend, then best believe she will do it to you if you get the chance.

 

[TheGambino]

So I picked her and a friend I invited up to go to school. Had fun with her, flirted and everything during the day. At the end of the day she says 'Ill go with you to your village! Ill take the train from there because I have to wait another 30minutes alone' Damn it our classmate decides to stay aswell omg. I could've invited her in for a drink but the other girl f8cked my plan up and went along. My (taken- shes has a bf:/) girl looked a bit disappointed and I had to dropp her off. She texted me 2 hours later and that's it.

Problem: she has a bf, shows some interest.

How to proceed, just call or text invite her for drinks? how would u guys pr0ceed

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Has she actually confirmed to you that she has a bf? As in, she said yes when you directly asked the question?

If so, just say that's cool, then stop giving her attention for at least a few weeks. Focus on some other women. Not only will it force her to recognize the situation, she will take action if she wants you. If she does take action, she'll then make sure you know she's newly single. Don't go around chasing her. She already sees you've got high value; let her do the work and recognize that you're the prize.

 

[TheGambino]

Bettercallsaul lol that guy has an answer for anything he deserves his own series.

Anyway shes in my class read the top post of this thread for some background bro. I know she has a bf and I even met him on a project I did with her 2 years ago. But since the first day I met the girl theres attraction between us, shes interested but she has a bf and I think shes fed up with him but still loves him if you know what I mean.

And I think if I forget about her she will text me to see if im still availble and interested in her, because I everytime I go ghost on her she tries to contact me and stuff. We just never been on a date and I try to pick a good moment to ask her out and close the deal