Girl in math class

[knglerxt]

There's a girl I'm attracted to in my math class. I recently told some people I know about it, and they said I should change seats and sit next to her. One of the problems I have with this is the fact that I've already been sitting somewhere else since the semester started. It's a very small class, so I know she would notice if all of a sudden I was sitting behind her.

How do you think she would view that? Do you think most girls would guess that you like them, or would that even cross their minds? I've been checking her out, but I don't know if she's noticed.

I just can't seem to get these doubtful thoughts out of my mind. In my head, I imagine her thinking something like, "What does this guy think he's doing?"

 

[Obsidian]

create a ruse by getting one of your friends to switch seats first, to a seat two spaces away from her. Then you and he come early to class, and you'll be sitting in between his seat and her's when she walks in

In answer to your question, she probably would get the hint (and thereby assume a lot of interest on your part, which might be bad) unless you have a decent excuse .

 

[knglerxt]

Actually, I don't have any friends in the class or at the college. The people I told this to are employees at a place I used to work. So I wouldn't be able to concoct a ruse or anything.

I would much rather catch her before or after class, but so far I haven't been able to.

 

[Obsidian]

well, you could always just move seats anyway and risk looking stupid. At least you won't be any worse off with the girl that you are now.

definitely don't get your hopes up on this one girl, tho. Pursue others.

 

[knglerxt]

Yeah. I don't like looking stupid.

 

[LegendBoy]

Bro do the **** you want... Go up and sit somewhere come early when she enters point her towards the seat near you. Done. I did it on wednesday. If guys come sit near you. Just say your waiting for a mate..

 

[Obsidian]

quite right. DJs shouldn't really fear looking stupid, because the biggest risk is not to risk anything at all.

Since you can't do what I outlined earlier, try just starting a conversation with her a few minutes before class starts. Then move over next to her to make it easier to continue communicating.

Then always sit there from now on.

 

[evasive]

just follow where she goes after class, walk behind her, keep some distance dont make it too obvious

does she go to the cafetaria? library to study alone? home? another class? just see if its possible to approach

ya ya, i understand some of you might consider this as "Stalking", but its okay to do it ONCE to get the approach in...
now if you are doing it everyday, then it's a different story

 

[knglerxt]

Hey fellow Rush fan.

Yeah. Rush is my favorite band.