"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl in gas station

londondude

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Hey guys,

Can anyone give me some advice here?
basically, theres a girl that works in a gas station near me, wot would the best way to get too know this girl ;-)

Anyone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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londondude said:
Hey guys,

Can anyone give me some advice here?
basically, theres a girl that works in a gas station near me, wot would the best way to get too know this girl ;-)

Anyone?
Talking to her would be a good way of getting to know her...
...Maybe even spending some time with her doing something you both enjoy...

...Just a thought.
 

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keep driving back and forth on the highway while blasting the AC so you can keep pulling into the gas station. if you're good you can use up your tank every 10 min. if she's not creeped out by the 10th visit you're in the money

lol for real I would assume talking to her would work. if the station has one of those food stores you can go pick up something (probably mints) and as you're comin out you can just talk to her. I've never seen a woman gasstation worker so idk you shouldn't have a problem sparkin a conversation with her.
 

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Dude. It's a gas station.

Go up to the counter with 3 quarts of motor oil, a box of condoms, 2 bungee cords, and a forty of Olde English. She'll initiate the conversation.
 

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youknowtherest said:
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Go up to the counter with 3 quarts of motor oil, a box of condoms, 2 bungee cords, and a forty of Olde English. She'll initiate the conversation.
Although this sounds like odd advice I'm kind of wondering how this conversation would go. lol :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if u want to get to know her just ask her questions about herself.
 

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Yuriy777 said:
Although this sounds like odd advice I'm kind of wondering how this conversation would go. lol :crackup:
It is exactly what I would do. Seriously.

When she asks -- and she will -- I'd just improvise. "My car's making a rattling noise. I'm hoping it's just low on oil, and since you don't sell rubber gloves, I figure I can put one of the condoms on each finger to keep my hands clean when I put the oil in. If that doesn't solve it, I can bungee cord the front grill to my d!ck and practice for the strongman competition out in your parking lot while I wait for AAA to show up. No sense in wasting a beautiful night like this, and it'll save me a trip to the gym."

"And the beer?"

"You think I'm gonna pull a two-ton car with my d!ck sober?"
 

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Walk up to her, smile, introduce yourself, ask her what her name is, tell her that she is hot, and walk away without looking at her again as you leave, don't pay her a lot of attention after that, if she likes you her body language will reveal this, if it does ask her out, if it doesn't forget about her, if you come accross as being "Bold" "Confident" and have a "King" type personality installed into you it won't be very difficult to attain her. :D
 

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youknowtherest said:
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"And the beer?"

"You think I'm gonna pull a two-ton car with my d!ck sober?"
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

KoalaKing said:
Walk up to her, smile, introduce yourself, ask her what her name is, tell her that she is hot, and walk away without looking at her again as you leave, don't pay her a lot of attention after that, if she likes you her body language will reveal this, if it does ask her out, if it doesn't forget about her, if you come accross as being "Bold" "Confident" and have a "King" type personality installed into you it won't be very difficult to attain her. :D
Oh, please no
 

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WHY IS THIS EVEN BEING ASKED??? What, u havent yet read about approaching girls and startign conversation? wat kinda ****in AFC retard are u???

wat a lameass thread
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Walk up to her... and say:

"I like you. I want to get to know you"
Smile widely and honest... and really mean it... Do it strong... with no excuses... no turning back, no hesitancy... and she will be thrilled to be approached by such a man and would really be intrigued to get to know you.

After that all you have to do is relax... and get to know her... behaving the gentle and affectionate way as you would with a 2 year long relationship... including kino and everything...

Care for her...

Be the man of her dreams... do what i told you and you will see the effect.

Tell us what happened.
 

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2 ways you can do this

1)walk up to her, look down at your penis and then back at her and say, "well, its not going to suck itself".

2)walk up to her and say honk honk while squeezing her hooters.

this works everytime, trust me
 

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sorin said:
Walk up to her... and say:

"I like you. I want to get to know you"
Smile widely and honest... and really mean it... Do it strong... with no excuses... no turning back, no hesitancy... and she will be thrilled to be approached by such a man and would really be intrigued to get to know you.

After that all you have to do is relax... and get to know her... behaving the gentle and affectionate way as you would with a 2 year long relationship... including kino and everything...

Care for her...

Be the man of her dreams... do what i told you and you will see the effect.

Tell us what happened.
I hate to break it to you, but this sounds like supplication at it's finest.

Do you honestly act this way when you first meet somebody? Or better yet, do they respond to this?
If so, what planet are you on?

Skel said:
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1)walk up to her, look down at your penis and then back at her and say, "well, its not going to suck itself".
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This does work, but I'd get to know her a little bit first. lol :crackup:
 

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I enjoy many of your posts over in the A&D forum. I think it's a waste of your valuable time and mental resource posting here because these guys are indirect. Let them figure it out on their own.

sorin said:
Walk up to her... and say:

"I like you. I want to get to know you"
Smile widely and honest... and really mean it... Do it strong... with no excuses... no turning back, no hesitancy... and she will be thrilled to be approached by such a man and would really be intrigued to get to know you.

After that all you have to do is relax... and get to know her... behaving the gentle and affectionate way as you would with a 2 year long relationship... including kino and everything...

Care for her...

Be the man of her dreams... do what i told you and you will see the effect.

Tell us what happened.
 
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