"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJArlington

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i was in a elevator with a very hot girl tonight and i had about 30 seconds to talk to her. i made a random funny comment about the fish she had in her hand (weird) and she laughed. i didn't ask for her name or anything but i did say good night and i looked her straight in the eye as i was walking out of the elevator. she smiled back at me.

please note that I'm an AFC converting over to a DJ. IT's taken me some time but I'm finally having the balls to go up to women... I've had girlfriends, gotten laid etc but the really hot ones have always been kind of out of reach for me. i mean my girlfriends have been really pretty but there are some chicks out there that just drive me wild.

my question is - i live in a condo, but i will probably not see this girl again for like another month because my building is so big. what the heck can i do in the elevator? do i just ask for her name and ask her if she wants to get coffee sometime? some tips would be really nice. i actually went on a date once with this chick from the elevator, but it didn't go anywhere cause she was like 7 years older then me, and i think i may have come off as too nice of a guy... which is weird because i come off as a nice guy but i've dumped every single girlfriend i've ever had except for my first real girlfriend.

let me know guys - pleace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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first of all, what is pleace? is it peace + please = pleace?

:D

Haha, i'm just joking.

Yes, that was a good opener, you did it. EC and her reaction to you were signs of high IL.

You could simply introduce yourself, actually just talk to her like that. It's better than not doing anything.
 

Gonzalo

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I'm not sure I follow... you've actually had a date with fish-girl from the elevator, or was that another elevator girl?

In any case, you've been here a while, remember, if you're into the conventional stuff (ie as opposed to the other methods to bag her then and there), then you HAVE to get the number. If you had enough time to make her laugh and build a little rapport then she would probably hand it. It's the only way you won't be banging your head against the wall when she walks away with her fish.
 

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gonzalo, i had a date with another girl from the elevator. you are right, i definitely should have gone straight for the phone number. i'm going to bang my head against the wall all night. this sucks - but ill definitely get her number next time.
 
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