"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl in class

nesblu

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So for the new semester in math I was switched into a new class and we were all assigned seats. The teacher grouped up everybody in tables of 4. So at my table theres 4 kids, me, an HB 8.5 and two other kids who know each other. I haven't yet talked to any of my group members since the teacher has been lecturing the whole time. I could have sworn the HB 8.5 sitting next to me kept looking at me and playing with her hair, at one point she even slid her legs under her desk underneath my desk till she made contact with my shoes. Surprisingly she did not immediately take her feet back but she left them for about 10 more seconds. How do you think I should open this girl, should I ask her a question about the homework or something?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LearningSlowly

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Before or after class, you HAVE to say something. First free chance you get. Confident people introduce themselves right away.

If no one else introduced themselves to the hot girl, you can be the first and you won't be any worse off for the delay, but don't waste time! Meet her, as well as the guys at your table, and don't try to overdo anything, just be interested in her. You don't need to hide interest, interest is natural and respected.

The phrase I use before parties to try to focus myself on the right attitude, without overthinking it, is "Simple-cool." You don't have to be spectacular or anything, and often those thoughts can actually make you more shy. Simple and cool is enough.
 

ryanjevo

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Bro, just introduce yourself. Then just start making her laugh. Don't overthink what your gonna say. Just be genuine. Make fun of her if you can over little things. Just teasing you know?

Girls always love when I introduce myself. Shows them that I am someone they should know. Which I am. And so is any DJ.
 
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