"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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xander

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last semester there was a girl in my class. i never talked to her before dont even think she seen me in the class before because we were sitting at the other side of the room as each other. but one day on facebook i seen her on it and messaged her asking her about a exam coming up but she never replied back. now this semester shes in my class again and shes in my group and ill say a joke and she will laugh and i always catch her looking at me. i would talk to her after class but she always goes in a direction that leads outside which i would have no reason to go that way..i have no idea if she remembers that i messaged her on facebook or not so should i add her as a friend and then messege her later or not cause i don't want to do it and her be all like wtf in class.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This post is a similar situation that happened to me in University. There was a girl that sat next to me in class, she was also in another class of mine. We chatted in class a few times, she borrowed my notes. I really had a crush on her and she might have had a bit of a crush on me? She looked in my direction sometimes and I would often bump into her when I least expected too. She seemed to like what I contributed to class discussion. I got her email address and she never replied to my email and later found out she had a bf(I was gonna ask her out), luckily I didn't!
 
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